I am currently going through a dilema in my life. I met a wonderful girl on the internet. who i totally have fallen in love with and respect so much. She has made it clear to me she feels the same way. And that she could imagine being my girl one day. But I was always showing too much interest in her by constantly expressing my feelings for her and my love. She speaks with other guys on the internet And she does even pay more attention to them at times. She is a shy girl who doesnt have much confidence. She lacks male attention in real life and therefore is much more insecure than your normal girl. She is 16 years old. And she is always sending me mixed signals. Ever since the problems we had in our relationship. We have exchanged about 200 texts in total. We SPAM, msn, and we talk on the phone at times. I have developed comfort with her and have even done the sexual phase correctly. I have managed to make her open about her sex life with me and therefore she has even particpated in some sexual role play and intimacy via the internet. I have met her once but sadly she came with a friend because her friend wouldnt let her go alone. My game is not very good so therefore I lacked the correct social tools to know what to do in this situation. But my target said that she loved the guy i was even if we didnt talk much. She is a wonderful girl with many oppertunities in her life. And ive said to her that id love to make you my girl one day. And just generally being desperate and saying things to her which allows her to think. Lately she said to me, " u seem to have been off me lately " And that, " she loves me..but idk " She sends alot of mixed signals. And i have made it hard for her in the past to trust me with things. But im slowly managing to build that trust back. I feel like i can get quite far with this girl if i play my cards correctly. We have flirted with each other. And she says that she is turned on by me. but i have stopped doing all of that sexual talk recently ever since we met. I have an argument with her about her not paying attention to me. And she said: I met you irl, we text, i SPAM you when i can, msn," It is possible that she is just looking for attention. But she doesnt seem the type of girl to do that. Ever so recently because ive been bringing up my "Real" feelings for her alot. She has been saying to me: " Im busy irl, Im busy " Therefore not allowing me and her to speak as much. These were her own words...
' I used to be all you would need '
' you never leave, my mates all warned me about you '
' but day and night i think about you '
' look u got with me and started a war '
' u thought you could ignore it '
' im broken down on the surface '
' i dont deserve it '
' whrever i go now '
' idk '
' but ur always there '
' this isnt me '
' i hate wot weve become '
' this aint my life '
' its not goodbye '
' Look i need a break. '
' I need some space. '
These were her words to me last night.
She came online on msn to me around an hour ago now saying:
'Going out today, SPAM later'
So, she initated contact with me. However im not too sure on why she would do this. Shes a highly confusing girl. And i lack the correct game to know how to play this situation correctly. Overall I think shes just unsure how she feels for me right now. And shes allowing her guards to drop for other guys but not so much me at the minute.
My question is,
How do i game this girl correctly from now?

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Alex, Pimp in training.

So much to say here...

*Stop being so 'I love you and I'm always available'. This kills attraction.

*You said you stopped being sexual/flirty with her? Don't. That's a huge mistake.

*Be a little less available! Don't SPAM on command etc

*Give off a less needy vibe. Sounds like you have a bad, bad case of oneitis for this girl.

*Back off her from her for awhile. If she wants space, give it to her, and only talk again when you want to, not when she tells you to.