I would like help from the community with my profile. I just set this up on POF. Any suggestions would be appreciated. I am not looking to just pound chicks. I want quality over quantity. I am 25 and I feel this is congruent with my personality and values. I would like to add some cocky funny as well. I am quite funny, I am just not 100% sure how to add it to my profile without sounding like a prick. If anyone can help, I would like to know how I am coming off, any ways to fix it, and how to add a bit of cocky funny into the profile. I very much appreciate the help. From a far I have been picking up little bits and pieces from the PUA community. Now I am actually jumping in to take part. Thanks.


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I don’t claim to know women, but I know why you are on here. Either consciously or subconsciously you are looking for change. We are in the same position. But the question is, “why do we want change?” I don’t want change because my life is terrible, quite the opposite. In fact life is great.

Let yourself imagine a life where you love your family and friends and cherish every moment with them. You also have an amazingly fulfilling career. Every day you jump out of bed excited to get to work, not because you make extravagant amounts of money, or because you have complete intellectual and creative flexibility, but because you get to meet new, interesting, motivated people and you get to help them make positive changes in their lives. And after work, you are out enjoying what the best of what Vancouver has to offer.

-----------------------------*Random thought: How good is the smell of rain on warm cement!... WOW*--------------------------------

In this moment I am very happy. But I know if I lived this situation over and over for the next 5 years I would be bored and begging for change. Change for me equals happiness. I am excited and motivated to see what is awaiting me around the corner. If you picture your life just slaving away, never really fulfilling your life’s purpose and not enjoying every day to the fullest stop reading here, move on. The rest of you read on.

I am comfortable with myself enough to “know when to hold’em and when to fold’em”. (Thank you Kenny Rogers) This rule applies to women and opportunities alike.

I have two other rules:

#1: No Regrets
#2: Everybody Wang Chung Tonight!

This is how I see the people in my life; Family is the closest to my heart ( I consider some of my friends to be my family ) and I would do anything for them. Friends are the people who have been there for me and who will continue to be there. Loyalty is huge, if I get a bad vibe you I will not let you in my circle. Then there are acquaintances, they are friends who I may not speak to very often but when we get together it is just like old times.

You’re probably thinking “where could I fit in with all of this?” Well, that really depends on if I let you in. Sadly I don’t even know you. And maybe I haven’t even messaged you. at this point it is like you are not even real. You are just a profile, a face (pretty or otherwise) with some text below. If you write me a message or respond to one of mine great, if not.. Meh (insert “Meh” face and shoulder shrug here).

To be honest at this point in time life is exciting because I am always trying new things and meeting great people all the time. This is just another avenue to meet great people. I am only interested in meeting positive up lifting people who are intriguing and chasing their passion. First you have to prove we can get along as friends before we take it to the next level.

Whether you think you are for me or not drop me a line. I love to hear new fun ideas of what to do / what is going on in Vancouver. If you’re lucky enough maybe I’ll bring you along.

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Whisp