| This is a really personal, but I need the advice. After all, imo pua is more than "just girls" it's about building a life, correct? I'm trying to rebuild mine and meet women online at the same time. It shouldnt be an option, I'm well aware I need to put myself first, but what's the harm in trying to talk to a girl and see where it goes?
What happened was, I lost everything last year because I lost my job. I had a house, a truck. and a life that I never knew I even had until I look back on it now. I made a lot of stupid moves! I guess my ex gf walking out on me as well didnt help my confidence level, and that was 4 years after a devestating divorce as well. I'm to the point where i ask myself "when will I ever win?" But i need to make the right choices "to win"
I'm staying with a buddy right now working a full-time job, trying to save up for a car and get back on my feet. How would I approach this detail in profiles? Women like honesty and that's what I am. My profile even says I have no car, that may be a turn off. It's not just being without a vehicle. My credit is shit, no college, just an average mid-lower-class guy. I've had a very stressful year and I don't want to scare women away with the past? I'm not a loser, I just made stupid moves and fell into a hole, and slowly crawling out of it.
I'm a bit of a nerd, I'll admit that. never been the alpha type or the leader of the pack. Even re-reading this, i can see how much I am putting myself down, and that's not the answer. I'm 34 and don't want to keep waiting until next week, or next month to meet someone because of the position I am in.
Anyone who's ever been down on their luck, I could really use a word or two.
Thanks for your time
Long time newbie, but never giving up....
Mike
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