If you guyz are anything like me, then you have problems with women flaking on you constantly. I have this problem as well, but I'm starting to find my way around it. I'm no expert when it comes to hooking up with girls online, but I have been experimenting with it off and on for a few yrs now, and I think I have something to contribute.

I currently have a match.com account. In the past, I also sarged women through yahoo personals and hotornot.com. I met one woman through yahoo - no results. And I also met a woman through hotornot who did become my girlfriend for several months.

Here's the most important thing I've learned so far about online gaming through dating sites: If you're able to start a conversation with a girl (especially through match.com) DO NOT EMAIL HER MORE THAN ONCE A DAY!!!!!!! Every single time I got a girl interested in me, and I emailed her more than one time a day - she flaked. Even if she responds to your message with a message of her own early in the day, or afternoon - whenever - MAKE HER WAIT! If you respond too soon, you'll seem too desperate.

Another thing: Begin your description with some funny / witty comments about your social habits. Something completely over the top! Let her know you got a sense of humor right from the start! Your first paragraph should be all comedy, the rest should be down-to-earth seroius about who you are and what you're looking for. I tried being all serious for a long time with my opening descriptions of myself, and got very little responses in return. But now - different story!!! Dont get me wrong, I'm sure I'm still doing some things wrong. I havent actually met anyone through match.com yet. BUT - those two tips have kept women interseted in me much longer than before.

Also, some pictures of you in social enviornments with friends at bars, etc, arent a bad idea either. Make sure you give full body shots (so women know for sure that you're not fat). And make sure those pics have you smiling and showing that you do indeed have all your teeth!

If anybody else has other tips, I'd be glad to hear them. Like I said, I'm no expert and I'm always looking to improve my online game.

Actually I dont believe in making them wait. Youre goal is to get them offline as fast as possible. Thats just me. Also, studies have found that pictures with you not smiling work better for guys. As well as not looking directly at the camera.