Ive been talking with a few girls on POF who definitely seem interested, but Im having a hard time sexualizing the conversation... I know most of you guys say just get the girl to meet you and talk in person, but are there any ideas you guys have to at least make the girl more interested before you meet her? Like, what do you do after the opener and after the usual BS to change up the direction the conversation is currently going?

Either twist something they say sexually or use sexual undertones to start.

if you have absolutely no imagination, just say,

''OH MY GOD... I JUST REALIZED IM NOT WEARING PANTS :O''

you can flip this with a takeaway if you have to, like

''don't be silly, im wearing shorts''

then keep escalating and escalating, start light test the waters, get more and more sexual

you can also just use qualification, then sexually escalate from that, but honestly it is probably a better idea to not get a girl hyped up over text, when not in person, it only really increases the chances of flake in my opinion, you want to keep sex off her mind until in person, this will decrease the chance you raise sexual anxiety in her and have asd problems

just being cool and interesting is enough, you can screen her for sexual preferences, but as soon as you cross into, me and you = sex land, some girls get spooked and are interested and down, but get nervous about the idea and phyche themselves out

GOOD LUCK