Hey guys, I need help with something. So the other day, I really hit it off with this girl on POF. She is cool and smart, so I didn't even really pay to much attention to what I was writing. Here is our conversation.
Me:
Ciao,
I know this is gonna sound super random, but I just noticed your profile and I had
to tell you that you have an incredible sense of style - compared to a lot of the
women that I've seen on here. It's like a mixture of classiness and elegance, with a
hint of casualness, which still makes you seem quite easy going, rather than a high
maintenance materialistic girl - btw if you are one of those girl, I'm already gonna
have to break up with you.
But beauty is common though...so I want to see how cool and interesting you really
are as a person.
Tell me about something that you've never tried before, and you would love to try.
Her:
Nice, Neruda...
an attractive guy who's actually literate, I'm intrigued.
Something I've never tried before? Go on a road trip through Europe.
Me:
Finally, someone who got extra points, and hopefully didn't Google it.
If you could visit only 10 countries on that road trip which would you
pick. Oh, and by the way, I am from Serbia, so pick carefully
Her:
actually I just memorized that poem to present in my English class for extra credit....
is that a threat?!
haha okay, here it goes....
in no particular order. Spain, Italy, France, Belgium, Germany, Poland, Austria, Turkey, Greece, England
(assuming my car can swim). hahahahh those are definitely at the top of my list as far as bucket list
destinations go.
Me:
Oh, not a threat, I wouldn't dream of it, just a warning. Nice choices.
You seem like a cool person as far as I can tell. Have you ever played
20 questions game?
Her:
I sure have, its a favorite of mine! I'll go first.
sunset or sunrise?
Me:
Depends on a mood. If I am thinking about serious things, sunrise,
because it is peaceful and serene, if I am relaxing on a beach with a
cocktail, sunset.
If you could have romantic relationship with one fictional character,
who would it be?
Her:
I like that.
Hmmm....Chuck Bass from Gossip Girl. You'd have no idea because I doubt you've ever seen that show
but he's basically really mysterious, confident, intelligent and a complete ***hole but in a very sexy
way, haha not to mention he has incredible style.
Urban or rural?
Me:
I know who Chuck Bass is, and I've seen few episodes of Gossip Girl.
True, it was on 12 hour flights to Europe, but still...
Urban for everyday life. I grew up in a big city, and I like
everything about it except traffic jams. But I have a lot of family
in rural area and I used to go there every summer and winter and stay
for the couple of weeks.
If you could ask God a single question, what would it be?
Her:
Same, Manhattan is my dream city to live in, I love the urban life...
The high fashion, the fast lifestyle, the nightlife..
And that's probably the toughest question I have ever been asked. I'm fascinated as to how you come
up with these. And I know that no matter what I say I'll want to revise my answer a thousand times
when I think back on it, but I'll give it a shot. I'm atheist, so this is a goood one hahaha...
I guess the typical "if miracles exist and you truly love and want the best for the human race why do
innocent people die horrible deaths every day and why do plagues and things like the Holocaust
occur?"
What would you ask?
And if you had one day left to live and had absolutely no limits on the things you could do, how would
you live your last day?
Me:
Have you ever been to NYC?
Heh, true, it is really tough one. Honestly, I could not pick one
question. I would probably write top 10 questions, and randomly pick
one.If he made us, who made him, or how did he just become? What was
motivation behind our creation? What was before he created us?
And to answer your question, probably just spend it with my family
and friends having fun. I know most people say something like
skydiving and stuff, but some of my best memories are our family
gatherings.
If you could change one day in your life, not a single decision, but
one pivotal day, which would it be?
Her:
Yeah, I have, just once for literally three days. After walking around Manhattan by myself every night I
completely fell in love with it and I want to live there hopefully in a couple years.
Next question!
Her:
I wouldn't change a thing. I would never mess with fate like that. I guess the only thing I would do is
bring my grandma back.
What is your idea of the perfect woman for you?
Me:
Well aside from looks, which are important, someone that I can have
deep minded as well as random conversations about guy things. Someone
adaptable who knows how to behave in different societies and is open
minded, active, independent, someone who knows how to enjoy the
moment and relax.
What would you never willingly sacrifice to save a great many people?
By the way, do you text?
Her:
Good criteria.
I have to wake up in four hours and I've had an utterly exhausting weekend, please save your mind
boggling questions for another time when I'm slightly more awake.
And yeah, who doesn't these days?
Me:
Haha, sure, I will. Text me when you are ready
xxx-xxx-xxxx. Sweet
dreams.
If I am not retarded this went as good as it possibly can. She texted me right away saying good night and stuff like that. And then the following day I opened her which she ignored, and later she asked to see more pics to make sure I am not "sixty and obese". I told her to add me on FB which she did, and I asked here:
"So, am I 70 year old fatty?"
"Yep, hahahah"
And that was it? Any suggestions on how to reopen it, how long to wait etc?
Thanks.
CHAT