Quote:
Me: Stalker
Her: *heart involving a 3*
Me: It has to have been a year since I've talked to you. How have you been?
Her: I know. It's been too long. But I have been really good. And you?
The thing is, she replied with the heart at 10 am, while I was in class. If she replied at around 10:16, then I believe I replied at 10:28 or it was around 10-15 minutes after she first replied. I believe my response was already a screw up. I opened her with an observational (IOI, in my opinion) flirty response then after getting another IOI I set the conversation to this slow ass formal response. Reflecting back, I feel incredibly stupid. I know it's not too late to save it, but Im not sure how to reply to that response in a flirty way and steer the conversation towards something more. Any advice?
stop over analyzing shit and just have a conversation..... it doesnt matter how soon or how late you reply, its not gonna make you look desperate nor will it make you cool if you reply late(that's what you call immature games no one wants to play). if you're pulling your hair out for each reply she sends, you're just gonna blow it before you even get anywhere.
be yourself, be kind of a jerk but not an asshole(there's a difference), be nicer, say everything the way you want to say it, and most importantly.. be yourself.. dont try hard to be anything, hard wire it into your brain and it happens naturally.