Just wondering what types of routines are effective to use over MSN or AIM? and if you could go into some sort of detail thatd be great....im not looking for any convos to copy, but just some games or stuff like that, which will really hook a girl into a convo

I've been using MSN alot recently for this. It depends on what kind of conatct youve had with the target before. So say if you've alraedy had some kind of sexual contact with her I reckon you could use this to your advantge. However most girls are turned off by this kind of thing if its totally unsolicited. Even if you have had some sexual contact, I'd keep it to the double entendres try and arouse specific memories of her arousal subtly and link them with you. So for eg. maybe:

Girl: so what does last nite mean?
Me: Which part exactly
Girl: cmon you know!!!
Me: we musn't let those impulses drive us sooo mad
mE: Cant' you control yourself? lol
etc.

This is a bit crude but this kind of telling her not rationally do give in to those feelings will make her recall them and in so doing reinforce aany existing sexual attraction to her. No?

I'd be very interested if n e 1 has anything to add.

I'm thinking hooking a girl into a convo is gonna involve her wanting to justify herself to you or feeling the need to relate what you say to her life. Sooo, basically your gonna need playful negging interspersed with slanted compliments: Eg.

Girl: I'm sooo hungover
Me monkeyface says joking "you need to chill out freckles or youll turn out like courtney love"
Girl, I really do, I feel terrible
Me, we cant have you looking terrible and all hungover if your gonna hang with us tonite!!
Girl, My mum was having a go and everything
Me: I bet you were a problem child!
Girl: Oh I was etc. yad yada yada
Me: Dont be too hard on yourself, your okay insert name
Me: if u sharpen ur self up a little! [smarten up ur act or whatever]
Girl: oh tahnks a bunch
Me: Realx relax if u take sarcasm this badly w'ere going straight back to square one. I'm just toying
Me, come along tonite and just try not to get on my nerves yeah!

etc. etc. Whad dya reckon??

A routine I frequently use in the field and works online well too is Mystery's Question Game. It basically goes like this. "I have a game for you." It's called the question game. I'm kind of making the rules up as I go, but.....rule #1 you can't ask the same question twice. rule# this is kind of like truth and dare but since I can't see you a dare wouldn't do any good. Besides I don't want to find out how weird you really are yet. rule # 3 you go first.... They usually say hey that's not fair. "How many boyfriends have you had?" This way she can't ask you get it. Neg / Tease her if she tries to break the rules by asking you the same questions back.

Have fun and enjoy!

J SMOOTH

Yaeh man this sounds really good but Can u elaborate more on how u think the game ought to progress, like do a few examples or whatevr so I an get the idea.

Any help most appreciated...

J SMOOTH: How many boyfriends have you had?
HB: 8 or something
HB: How many girlfriends have you had?
J SMOOTH: That's the same questions you're breaking the rules already? How'd you make it through school. (laughing) Ask me something original.
HB: What do you like to do for fun?
J SMOOTH: That's not original, but better. I like to spelunk, water sports, etc etc.
J SMOOTH: Where did you loose you virginity?
HB: yack yack yack

I escalate my questions a little to a sexual nature since I can't physically kino. We go back in forth for a while. If I think she's getting to personal or she seems to be bored. Alright, Game Over!

Hope it helps.

J SMOOTH

The questions game is GOLD. Some guy used it on me a while back, and I fell right into it....and I'm impossible to sarge.

I use the questions game on guys all the time, and it's never failed me.

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One more thing: What is "kino" and what are "HDV" and "HB9,9"?? I've got some of the terminology down but I cant figure these. Cheers J smooth

kino is body contact, touching flirting
HDV is DHV lol Demostrating Higher Value
HB9.9 I think means Hot Babe and score of 9.9 / 10

If she gets too personal are you shutting her off to leave her in intrigue?

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