Right..
QUESTION: How many of you get viewed by girls you haven't even viewed or contacted, but get no contact from them?

Yes, I bet quite a few of us do!!

I have decided to give this a test to see where it goes...

I would hazard a guess that they liked the picture, hense why they clicked to view your profile?
So something within the profile didn't excite them enough?
Fair enough, but lets try and tempt them in to conversation...

So, see a cute girl has viewed me (as usual) and no message within 5-10 minutes so decide to send the 'Opener'...

Subject: How rude.. I saw you looking...

Some might find that rude..
but anyway, thanks for popping by and viewing the profile, you must of had the same thought as me, that we wouldn't get along...
Do you change your mind as often as your hair colour?

This last line will change depending on the girl:
I have also used:
Especially if you wore your hair like that on our first date!


Now we wait for them to re-view you, and low and behold, from the 2 initial test messages I have had replies..

Re the sample above I got:
HER: haha yes I change my mind as often as my hair colour!

Ok, nothing definate, but she laughed and responded.. so next step...

ME: It does look nice though, which ever colour you have it..

My names TwennyP by the way...

And guess what.. I get the reply again..

HER: thanks. but there's too big of an age difference. good luck with site!

Ok, yes, this one is maybe a little too young for a man my age.. 16years difference may be pushing it some what.. But I don't give up the test...

ME: Who said I was trying to get a date with you?

Very presumptious... cheeky..

I was just being friendly.. But I like the fact you said it was only the age that would be a no go!!

How's it going for you?

Here I play the i'm not interested in you card... But drop the hint she did like the look of me..

In comes the reply..

HER: well i did like original message. different. seem to get lot of creeps sometimes. you are confident. haha


Ok, so still getting the conversation going...

It's late now, so am going to have to think on the next stage..
As I said, this is a test of a new approach, so work in progress as they say..

Any tips or comments welcome...


Twenny.

I like that you are getting honored her for viewing you, but not contacting you. Honestly it's pretty rare for girls to make the first contact, so there's no need to take it personally if a girl views you but doesn't contact you.

At the same time, you still have every reason to tease her for it! In my opinion, from reading your profile, I think you go a little bit overboard. You may not want to call her rude; this is a bit insulting. Try below the more funny about it. Also, she may not get the whole haircolor reference.

I would just go with something simple like, “what's the deal with you looking at me, but not contacting me? Are you stalking me?" in this case, you're not insulting her, you're just making fun of her little bit.

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I love that you're being playful, Twenny. That's probably 50% of the online game. I'm with Elliott on this one though. Call her out on it, accuse her of being a stalker, but don't say she's rude. Its a fine line between being silly and playful and coming across as offended and stuck up.

Great general direction you're heading in though, and I'm sure you'll still yield some positive results even if left as is!

When a girl says there's too big of an age difference, I like to tell her that its a good thing we're not dating, since I would probably destroy her in bed and ruin her for all other men. This works, whether younger or older. It seeps into their brains and changes the dynamic.

I will also add that it seems to be pretty commonplace since women do not typically reach out to men on these sites. Many will visit a man's profile hoping that they will reach out to them. They may also just be oggling your pictures.

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JPow

I'll have a think over the rude bit, yeah maybe drop it from the subject line, but the idea is to force her to open the message... 'how dare he call me rude.. i'll tell him..' it's a test to get her back up that i then ease with a drop back that, 'some people' may find it rude, but not me?

Also, the hair colour ref was just towards this girl.. she had 6 photo's and 3 had different hair colours in them..

It's a risk, but as it's a trial, i will see how it all goes.. and tweaking is possible along the lines of your tips.. thanks


Twenny

Thanks for the tips, yes as already mentioned, I will review the rude part following the initial trials that are being played now..

Not happy about the forceful sexual suggestion though, but that's just me..
I prefer to play it more respectful, and I think the not interested play may help continue on this one?
Worried if I use your tip she may think 'F'king pervert!!'
It's not for me, but i'm sure some may be able to work it..

Cheers for comments


Twenny

That's even better if they've looked more than once.

I'm not sure you're really getting anywhere there. Age difference is hard to turn around. If you're going to write to girls who look but don't message I'd use it as a means to find out what they didn't like the sound of. That kind of information can be invaluable. However you have to be extremely careful how you word it.

To be clear, when I say that I would probably destroy a woman in bed based on our age difference, the response is almost 100% positive. No one thinks you're a perv, since you're basically telling the girl that you won't sleep with her. It makes her feel like youre a challenge if nothing else.

Hey,

Negs don't work online, it's hard to get tone and playfulness across digitally (even using emoticons, which you should avoid at first).

My experience has been this - if a chick checks out your profile more than once, or favorites you, or sends you a wink, she WANTS you to contact her.

From there, it's just getting the first message right and you are golden. Neg-ing is a bad idea. It's better to read her profile and comment or question about something from there, in a funny or playful way.

Respect,

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