i'm new to the pick up community and i started talking to a girl on fb and text. i've never met her, but we had long convos and she role played with me that we were getting married, she seemed very into me but has been not showing interest as of lately and the other night i left her hanging on fb chat. i read that long convos are bad because she will be less inclined to meet in person, and that is why i left her hanging last night, even though she knew i was on fb bc she liked a status i put up after leaving her hanging. I suggested hanging out recently and she responded to the other parts of the text but didn't confirm or deny she wanted to hang out. i tired to text her today this is what happened:

me: i just got you to look at your phone for no reason...looks like like i still have you in check

her: Ipod (she texts off her ipod not phone)

me: whatever

she never wrote back, what do i need to to to stop her flaking and so i can finally meet up with her? any advice/help is much appreciated

There's two factors at play here. Recognize 1, that we are all basically programmed to seek out that which retreats. 2. Some girls are only interested in online dating to get a self esteem boost. If you think its worthwhile, your best bet is to appeal to her ego. Leave her a cliffhanger.