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An example is: We all get in turns coffee for each other, cause it improves the social of the working group, but you know one guy says like jes can you get coffee, and I said no (not confident enough and in myself thinking fuck off) and he keeps saying it like making fun of me..
Just act like you didn't hear him and when he repeats just tell him you're busy.
Actually I'd make sure to have my own coffee on hand in a thermos for myself, that way he'll be less inclinded to ask you to get coffee as he sees YOUR needs are met as you already got the coffee, for youreelf. Also, if he asks just tell him "hey man, already got my coffee here, but thanks for being concerned" and smile.
btw, Jes, can you get me some coffee?