I have been sarging online for 3 month now. I have had a few dates but not really at the level I should be at.

At the bar or on a day game play I am much more successful. I have two 7s to date next week when I'm back from holiday. I am finding 8-10's harder to crack online?

Can you successful online PUA's break it down honestly for me?

Any thoughts guys???

if you could give us an example of what your doing and what your messages say, I might be able to give some advice. I've been sarging online for a more than 6 months now and it's just starting to click for me.

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21 year old AFC
Still tryna get rid of my AA =(

Here' some opener I have had quite good responses from.

How long does it take to clear your inbox???

I would take down that profile pic....

Where to next??

if all you want is hotties, you will find way more success cold approaching them in person, online has a way higher ratio of lazy guys to girls, girls that are anywhere near good looking, usually don't have that much problem finding a boyfriend in person, if they do anything near guys they will be getting some form of attention, online there are tons of shy and anxious and lazy guys, who won't go out and meet women for various reasons, so a giant stock pile of men ammass and girls get shit loads of options and messages and outnumber the guys, even unattractive girls get a decent amount of messages online, so to game the hotties online, you need to have something that works in your favour and some luck because these girls can just ignore you, and consider there 50 other messages they got that day

in person, you can just stop her and talk to her, it is way more pressure on her to stop and talk to you and actually give you a chance of consideration, online should merely be a supplement to your game if you are going to use it, not the main focus (unless you wan't an abundance of overweight girls, POF I hear is great for that)

LOL. I thought so. I do not have much trouble in person day or night, just decided to kill time chatting to a few chicks online.

I have met a few nice ones but date closing is a little harder than in person. Its easy for them to say no.

Cheers.

I'm not 100% clear on what your question is here. Are you having trouble getting them to respond, give out their number or first meetings?

He JPOWL, I am having trouble number closing and making first dates online. What works for you?

I've noticed that women are more receptive to giving out their number if you give them a valid reason why you would rather talk on the phone. I don't mean to give reasons why the phone is better than dating websites-- just let her know why your lifestyle doesn't allow you to answer emails very quickly.

I've also found that women are more likely to come through with their phone numbers after only a few emails are exchanged. The key is to recognize when there is genuine interest from her. At this point, I'll generally ask for a number in the interest of saving myself from going back and forth in futility; although I have also found that women will give out their numbers after a lot of messages. I believe this has to do with comfort levels.

The phone call should involve some fun and friendly questions, where she qualifies herself to you. Then, tell her that you're busy for the next couple of days, but you're available on x weeknight, and you'd like to meet her for a coffee or a beer. Use your game the whole time, and try to use humor. I like telling them that I would rather go for a drink or coffee so that I can drink up and leave if she turns out to be smelly.

Does this answer your question? There may be some more fundamental issues with your profile and/or emails that are preventing you from succeeding. If you want to post up your profile and a few emails I'll take a look.

Jpow