I do not take credit for the opener or the first couple lines, that is someone else's whose name escapes me at the moment. You should structure it something similar to mine and never answer back quicker than she did to you. Project passive disinterest. Saw this HB 8.5 profile the other day.
Lets say the girls name is Hayley.
[Begin with the poke]
Hayley
why'd you poke me? haha
Me
Hey you know its not safe to message strangers! I guess your parents never taught you that!
Hayley
but it's okay for you to poke strangers?
Me
Ahh you know you liked it. So if I would have like slapped you on the ass you would slap me on the ass back because I did it first?
Hayley
haha, I don't think so
Me
Hmm you seem like trouble, but I like it. Maybe I'm wrong, or are you a good girl?
Hayley
Depends what you consider good..
Me
I suppose there is only one way to find out. If you had a cell phone I'd be able to find out if your innocent enough.
Hayley
answer my question and then maybe I'll give you my number.
Me
Good is a girl who is always well behaved, quiet, not very flirty doesn't ever have fun at other peoples expense, and never pushes her own boundaries. Good is not what I'm looking for.
Hayley
Haha, alright.
Me
So you can take a chance and get to know a random guy you met on Facebook or you can keep playing the good girl.
Hayley
haha, don't threaten me. I am not a good girl.
Me
How old are you little missy and do not lie.
Hayley
I'm 18. how old are you?
Me
Well that is something you could find out if you had a cell.
Hayley
haha very funny. 291-xxxx
[transition to text game]
Me:
This is Travis. So are you causing any trouble tonight?
Her:
If by trouble you mean picking my sister up from the airport, then yes.
Me:
Depends, are you wearing a turban?
Her:
Lol, thats not very nice.
Are you going to tell me how old you are?
Me:
Eventually, yes.
Her:
Well thats not very fair. What can I do to make you tell me?
Me:
To be honest it will have to wait until I chat you in person. But I will give you a hint. I am older than you.
Her:
haha I kind of assumed that.
Me:
I am leaving the city Wednesday. SO you might have to wait to see me until Jan. That is, if you can hold out that long...
Her:
Where are you going? And you could always just tell me..
Me:
I'm 20. And I'm going home for some Christmas festives and to see the fam.
Her:
Where's home?
Me:
Saskatchewan. That is all you need to know for now miss Hayley.
Her:
haha you really don't like telling me stuff.
Me:
You can interrogate me all you want in person. Just no handcuffs.
Her:
lol why no handcuffs?
Me:
Because then I would have to return the favor by doing very bad things to you. Unforgivable things.
Her:
Oh yeah? Like what?
Me:
I'm sure you can use that imagination of yours.
Her:
My imagination is probably alot different from yours, so you should just tell me.
Me:
See now that would just take the fun out of it. Good night Hayley. Talk to you later.
Her:
Wow stop teasing me! goodnight haha.
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So a pretty effective method from going from a poke on facebook to well sustained interest. Any questions post them here.
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