Me: Black or Red?
HB:what?
Me: Choose one option, it's very easy
HB: red
Me: movies or series?
HB: movies
Me: hot or cold?
HB: hot
Me: ah you missed the last one, or else we would have too many things in commun :p
HB:
Me: I'll give you another chance, 2 other questions. coffee or restaurant?
HB: coffee
Me: today or tomorrow?
HB: hahahha, tomorrow
Me: well i'm busy in the morning but we'll have a coffee in the afternoon.
HB: I'm busy in the afternoon
Me: well next weekend, maybe.. if you'll be a nice girl of course
HB: looooooool, you're too self confident
Me: i always hear it, but it's not gonna take you somewhere, is that the only compliment you found?
HB: eh boy, play somewhere else, it's not gonna take me somewhere u said, are u out of your mind?
Me: hahahaha, actually no, i've never been better
HB: wake up!! be aware of what you're saying!
Me: loool, no need to be anti-social
HB: no, take it as an advice from me
Me: thanks moom
HB: you're welcome it's my duty to wake up people lost in dreamland
Me: you don't even know me, now you pretend knowing me better then i know myself?
HB: yes *disconnected*

I didn't know how to react to this, at first i played as if it's normal, but then a litle bit defencive. anyway, how would you guys respond to that? what did i do wrong here?

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Golden Rules i learned:
1- If you complement do it a serious way.
2- If a conversation starts with a low vibe and seems not getting anywhere, be direct but not on an emotional level.

You obviously did not build enough comfort or attraction to get a day2.

You were chasing her. Take time, build comfort and attraction. Then they chase you.

My pickup method is different than some people. I usually get a number close on about the 7th message. Anywhere from 48hrs to 15 minutes, depending on how fast I'm getting responses. Then a day2 in 12 hours - 5 days.


Too soon not enough comfort and attraction. Too slow and you'll get ljbf'd. With time you'll learn when it is the right time to close the day2.

I know, but i was being playful about it, maybe she thought i was serious!that's makes more sense.

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Golden Rules i learned:
1- If you complement do it a serious way.
2- If a conversation starts with a low vibe and seems not getting anywhere, be direct but not on an emotional level.

It sounds like she might have recognized the routine and immediately called you out and wrote you off as a player. Best to move to the next target.......