So girls in my university fucking suck.

The ugly ones got the brains, and the good-looking ones are dumb.

I've been looking around okcupid a lot of girls caught my attention, they seem educated, intelligent and good looking. Some even go to the same university as me.

I've had my account for a couple of months, and I really haven't had any luck with it. The good-looking won't even give me a chance to talk to them (I don't do the mistake of constantly bugging them, I just message once, they don't want to reply, they can suck my grids), and I have never been messaged.

I would say I'm a decent looking guy, I'd give myself a 7.5/10

So this is where I need your help, what should my profile look like? and what are the most successful ways to pick up girls online?

Also, I'm looking for a relationship, I don't want to fuck and dump.

Also answer poll, I'm curious.

I'd preferably like some advice from people who actually had success lol.

I wish I could write in an option that said "She was a total cuntbag and I never wanted to see her again". I've been doing online dating for 3 years but have only recently begun to actually step up my game. Take my results as you will but I've only had ONE date and it was horrible.

having a professional photo of me in a business shirt and tie was magic its o.k if your actually broke and not as powdered as in the pic if your game is up to scratch you can win her over on the date.Just mention in the profile your ambitions perhaps you want to run your own business one day whatever just dont overqualify yourself perhaps mention working towards something rather than having it,if your short add an inch to your height most girls i found did aswell.

without good pics i only get 6s with decent pics i could get 7-8s the rare 9 but i never dated the 9s being too intimidated back then to be honest.Unless you have a specific women target with your profile youll have to just get buzy with the flirt button.

LOOOL Ninja, I'm sorry to hear that bro.

What was she like?

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hmm professional photo, in a suit, suit it up barney stinson style

lol so I should go for the business oriented look?

I'll try that out, also thanks for the height tip. I'm 5"9 so it's really frustrating being short :/

also do you guys get messaged by girls? Or do you do all the messaging?

She had the emotional range of a rock and then tried me make ME out to be the asshole two days later.

Also, stop complaining about your height. I'm only 5'7".

To answer you question, I've only had uggos and fatties message me first. Otherwise I have had to do all the messaging.

probably not the suit jacket just a nice longsleeve bisiness shirt and tie not a black funeral style tie tho maybe a smart looking striped one.
have a relaxed smile more smiling with the eyes as if the camera lense is a loved family member your happy to see again.
if the pic is good and the profile targeted to a selected group or you have a specific identity ie kung fu specialist you might get a girl who is a karate expert write to you but if you just modify some pua's profile then dont expect more than the random flirt.
I probably had more success stating a few of my interests and being a bit easygoing rather than modifying the cocky funny profile of a pua.
then i just hit the flirt button to be realistic out of about 125 flirts over a week or two id only get back about 20-25 and the breakdown would be 15- 6s, 6-7s 3-8s 1-flakey 9.,so you have to just expect that its not as good as a cold approach because theyre just going of looks and stats but all you need is just one cute little 7-8 and youll be pimpin.

it's the same as any other date, you go in hug her, tease her a bit, escalate kino and makeout. it's only awkward if YOU let it be awkward.

Thank you all for your replies.

Actually that day I was really frustrated because no girl would fucking answer me, and I was frustrated out of my fucking mind. So I remember reading the book, and I thought screw it, I have nothing to lose.

I found one 9, she had a list of what she expects in a man. So I decided to go for the "I'm the shit" attitude.

me: I pass your checklist. Do you think you'll pass mine?

her: list em. I'm sure ill pass

me: lol wow someone's over confident, are you always like that? *lists them*

her: haha no I'm not normally over confident, I was totally kidding *comments on them* can't say i passed with flying colours but I am who I am

now I clearly have the upper hand, she even asked for my number and I told her "for all I know you could be a creep "

I think I figured it out, trying to be nice to a girl and making her your princess won't get you anywhere. You need to show your dominance so the girl can feel security and protection.

I told her today, a day after meeting her:

her: *some comment on her personality*

me: well, I guess we'll find out on Friday when i take you out.

her: :O yay! I'm excited!!

I hope this helps people who are really frustrated as to why girls don't message them back. Show your dominance, not by being insulting, and don't compliment her too much (otherwise she'll have high self esteem and ends up dumping you for a better looking guy LOL. Classic scenario.)

Only problem is, she's 2 inches taller than me, fucking giant girls. Is there heels for men? ....