Ok, I have been texting with this lady I met on a dating site and we even had one phone conversation that went really well. Talked for 2 hours. I thought we had good connection going.

We texted back and forth and we were supposed to have another call. One night she told me that she would let me know when she got home later and we could talk. She didn't get back with me.

Next day she texted an apology and said she got back too late. I just responded that it was ok and that I didn't have much time to talk anyway that night. She said we can talk later that night. Didn't get back with me again.

Now it has been two days and nothing. I was going to send her a text, but I want to come out on top of this even if it goes nowhere. I was trying to think of a good response that would not give her the superior position. Any help would be appreciated.

Your trying to elicit interest via text in a girl who likely has very little interest in you now. Thats a hard task, ive been there before more then once.

Here is the best DHV stuff I have for this situation, but again a caveat: if shes not interested don't expect much.


1. random text "Hey i'm at club xxx with two super hot chicks who want to meet you , they got me into the VIP, can you meet us? - free drinks all night!

- if she wont meet you at least you look cool
- if she does ignore her text then, text her in 2 hours and tell eh to meet you at some bar, when she shows up and asks about the vip and your two hot friend, say they left; plausible deniability

2. Random text "come to xxx venue, I have a backstage pass for you and xxx is here and xxx"

you get the idea, make her think your doing something really cool then bait and switch her if she actually responds, if she doesn't respond you still have DHV unless your story is so phoney she calls bullshit