For about a week now I've been doing some online sarging on OkCupid. Targeting strictly HB8's and above. I made two accounts, one with my pictures and on with a friends pictures who all the ladies think is goodlooking.
Basically what I'm doing is I'm messaging each target from both accounts and just seeing the difference in the responses and the attention each account gets.
The findings so far:
On my account, I message the ladies with much more interesting content. I'll make funny comments about their page, sometimes a playful neg, or some kind of an opinion opener. With my friends account, I usually just open with "hey" or something generic like that. Usually the ladies reply back to both accounts, but they reply back to my friends account with much more enthusiasm. They always put exclamation points and smiley faces. The convo's on my account usually start well, but then they start ignoring me and stop replying. A lot of times my friends account will be opened by girls with something like "Hey handsome!
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It's extremely easy to game girls on my friends account. The girls are going out of their way to exchange numbers and to meet up. They are the ones trying to pick him up instead of the other way around.
The thing I don't understand is that most girls find me to be really attractive and I usually get a lot of attention at the bars, but it seems that online their expectations for guys go above and beyond the norm.
I wish I had it as easy as him, because some of these girls that are going gaga over his profile are unbelievably gorgeous. Too bad they'll never get to meet him haha.
So basically what I'm finding is that the same things that work at bars and clubs for picking up girls have little to no effect on them online. It's nearly impossible to run game because you can't keep their attention.
CHAT