Good afternoon from sunny England.

So I met this turkish girl on the bus about a year and a half ago now. She asked me for my facebook, then we were talking online and even on the phone. We met up about 3 months after that (I study 4 hours away from my home town, so it wasnt possible to meet earlier). I acted quite strange when we meet and let my feelings for her known too easily (which she took advantage of by not showing hers). Despite this we carried on talking but then a few days later we had a rift which stopped us from talking for a while.

We resumed again a few months later with general chit chat and the odd flirt. Then when I was back in my home town she drove past me and stopped, said Hi and told me to get in. We sat there for about half hour talking about everything. Since then I have tried to get her to meet with me again but she is just being so stubborn and difficult. Its like trying to drown a fish. We havnt spoken since mid-August.

What can I say to her to put her back into that comfort zone and come out with me?

Any help would be much appreciated, thanks guys.

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don't do anything that you think might cause resistence from her side.
Break rapport (don't text her for a few days) it would get you out of her frame and chase mood.
Let her text you first (get into your frame) and be in chase mood.
And now when she texts you back, don't make the mistakes that you made first.
Pump her attraction and qualify her. Always keep her in qualifying frame. Build comfort and then invite her out. Its just like taking a step back and then comming back to it with a new approach.
Feel free to ask any questions

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Take the control back from her.

Don't do things according to her way anymore, do them according to yours.

She might throw a fit, or she might accept. Either way you'll get your answer to how she really feels about you.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

Hey guys, thanks for the heads up.

@ khuram, I think your 2 steps forward-one step back approach will work perfect.

@ Don, once we have resumed talking again, I will assert my own control over hers.

As I mentioned we havnt spoken since mid-August (about a month and a half now) so would you suggest waiting for her to send something? As AFC as it sounds, she did like my status today. Sure, khuram your idea of waiting for her to send first is a good idea, but isnt the time frame since we last spoke quite large to wait?

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nothing in seduction is too much or too little. If you can create a situation where you starts talking to you first, then do it. And as you mentioned she liked your status today, thats and ioi. Why dont you be wise and throw a some kind of interesting question in your fb status that she might want to reply or comment about? Or you can mention something interesting and ask your friends what they think? I hope you got my point

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Perfect. Thank you both for your help!

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OK, now we are getting somewhere. We started our phone calls again. Time to rinse and rework. Lets go..

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