First off, let me say one thing and make it very clear. I sit on the "white hat" end of the PUA community. Getting laid by lying, cheating and flat out dishonesty is NOT part of my game. Actually, on top of that, I usually don't like to play games unless it's mutual. WTF did I just say? No game? Yeah, the principles I've learned from PUA are ones I try to incorporate into my life. Being an attractive person who lives an attractive lifestyle makes PU 50% easier. Most of the girls I hit on are prescreened for relationship potential or the very least short term dating.


Ok, onto the story. I'm on FB commenting on a fellow PUA's post when I see a girl who comments on it too. She's cute. I ask my friend about her and he gives me a quick bio.

First stop, to her page. Gather information. A) Do I have any real commonality with this girl. If I can't find any via photos, or her info page, then I have no business talking to her. B) What's interesting about her? Could be quirky taste in music, photos of rock climbing...whatever.

What luck, we have the same bday. So off with a corny subject line ala my PUA buddy. "How's life treating you, Dear." Followed by a frame. I say that my friend told me that she and I were soulmates because we shared the same bday, but that I was skeptical, then I threw in an indirect compliment by asking how someone pretty like her was friends with my PUA buddy.


I conveyed interest and set her up into qualification mode in one fell swoop. This message came to me pretty easily. My approach is that if I can't come up with something smooth and easy, then I'm already dead in the water. If it's smells constructed, she'll sense something weird.

A few messages back and forth about nonsense including teasing her about wanting some random dessert I make. Then I tell her, NOT ask, tell her to give me her number because FB messaging is a PITA. She sends it to me.

I text her for a little while, then suggest we meet up for coffee. WAY TOO QUICKLY. She got creeped out. And my friend told me I approached the subject too fast without building sufficient comfort or reason to meet. I chalked it off as good practice and went on with life. This is all within a few hours back in March...

A couple of months roll by and I get invited out to hookah. Sweet! But...she's going to be there. FUCK! I don't need to be reminded about how I creeped her out... Oh well, time to put on the prick costume. I'm a complete ass the entire night. I'm aware of my body language and at one point I end up with her phone, then she tells me not to look at the photos, so I do. Then she takes my phone and posts some shit on a friend's FB wall. I get her VERY scared and then finally take her outside and tell her that I COULD have posted those racy photos on her FB in a click, but didn't. Then said "You're either going to love me, or hate me. You choose."

She was pretty quiet the rest of the night. I built a sense of trust (because I didn't cause any real problems via her phone) and power in "one fells swoop." Lots of teasing. Lots of sexual comments and inuendos. My goal was to convey myself as a sexual person.

I also sent her a message (while at the hookah bar) on FB telling her she should add me. Hahaha. Leading is always fun. She did.

We text here and there. Mostly initiated by me. At one point, I bit the bullet and mentioned bending her over. She firmly stated that she found it offensive and didn't like me saying stuff like that. A little more convo had me "appologize" for offending her, but also stating that I was being honest. This opened up some dialog about everybody wanting her just for sex. I also got some information about her preferences...

Another get together and I go in super high energy. My PUA friend is there, the HB and her friend. HB and I are acting like complete fools in public and it's entertaining as hell. I'm talking to everybody.

We move on to food and I insist on driving myself. GREAT option. HB loves fast cars and I happen to drive one. We go eat and I display my knowledge of the food (she's lost). This was probably a bad idea in general because of how cocky it came across. At one point, I feed her with chopsticks across the table. Again, setting up a lead/follow.

Another mistake with positive outcome. The place is cash only. She only has plastic. I offer to cover her. In general this is a bad idea...paying for a meal without good reason. However, 1) I was just covering her, not buying her meal, 2) It was a nice gesture after a TON of teasing, 3) It led to her owing me dinner and an excuse to get together.

As we walk outside she comments on my car and asks for a ride. She said she was tempted to jump out of the other vehicle when we stopped at a light but was afraid of traffic. I took her for a joy ride. She was admittedly wet afterwards.

More texting and an invite to get together which she forgets, then another which my phone doesn't send. All the while, I'm making sure she actually wants to. And teasing her for not following through.

Finally lunch. 1st one on one time in 6 months. We eat, we talk, I pay her a few compliments, but I'm still looking around at the eye candy. We talk about things that turn me on and I tell her NOT to do them. We walk around and she starts teasing about doing those things. I call her out on just hanging out with me because she loves attention. She admits that she does love attention (I set it up so she knows that I'm aware and will take it away if she doesn't "behave" herself) Lots of leading happens. We're walking, and I just turn direction. We're walking and I stop to look at something. All this time, we're playing the phone thief game taking each other's phones at random times and wagering them.

A little kino here and there. Lots of joking, teasing, photos. Then she suggests froyo. Sure...NEVER miss an opportunity to make a sexual act when given an excuse. Drip drip drip of melted froyo on her arm. I say "I'm sorry, but I have to. I grab her hand and lick the froyo from mid forearm, right to the inside of her elbow." PURE GOLD. She flushed and looking away. I just massively turned her on. Later she bends over to tie her shoe. Again, opportunity, I bite her neck.

The rest is my fun time. This all went down great and we spent the next few days together. I actually really like her and will probably pursue something with her.


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