I'd seen this girl around the gym and friended her on fb but hadnt chatted her up recently until I ran into her at a party.

She's a cute, small philpino girl easy 8 or a 9 if your into asians. I kind of am so I sent her a message on fb a few days later.

The new chat/message thing is a bit funny on fb now and I cbf separating it all out so this is a combination of messages and chat over a period of a couple of weeks...

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me

Well u didnt tell me if u achieved ur goal but u looked pretty hot at the bar the other night ;p

her

Nope failed that birthday goal. Too many things came up:(
Lol, well thanks but I don't feel "hot" when I go out, that's probably y I rarely want to!! U missed B, R and Cs' attempts to karaoke after!! Where did u guys end up? We couldn't get into paramount n deen :S

me

LOL Ive seen those dudes attempt karaoke before its always terrible hehe. Northbridge is pretty crap anyway these days we just kicked back to a friends place.
Hmm well u should feel hot, u leave me with no option no I gotta flirt with u to prove it :p

her

So if my sore body can make it to boxing tomorrow night, what time is it?

me

LOL interesting selection of words ;p boxing is at 5:30 and 6:30, u r pretty fit so I'd suggest u come to the 6:30 class its a little bit more challenging

her

Hrmmm well I had to think about it, I was gonna say sore ass but that just has too many connotations attached :S byo gloves?

me

LOL well yes u woulda made it too easy for me lol :p

me

Good effort in class tonite but u wrecked my plan I dont hit on girls in my class Im too pro for that

her

Omgeee I'm hurting all over! Haha, so u hit on the guys then? *_^

her

So...What makes u think I'll be there next wednesday?

me

Well it's such an awesome class so ... :p up to u, I can think of another way to make u sweat n e way ;p

her

Agree! It is a pretty good class ...I miss my pink gloves. I'm still feeling sore 2 days after! N I think the kick to my head didn't help either.

Hrmmmmmmm
her

Yoooooo

me

Yooooo! Aww I missed ya chat :/

Hows that sore little body feeling after a weekend of recovery time?

her

Yeah shut down!!
Feeling Even worse now! Combat on sat, rpm/crunched Sunday and this am 6 weeks :S

her

Oops forgot to mention my awesome volleyball games n ten pin bowling

me

Wow now I know why u got chronic fatigued :p

her

I've recovered!! Wooooot wooooot. What did u get up to on the weekend?

me

ahah long story :p

her

Ok, not the sharing type

me

is what I'd usually say..

her

Ha! Well i said it

me

actually I ended up having a pretty quiet weekend which was nice to have some time to myself for a change

but theres a long story about that too, lol I seem to be saying long story alot recently :p

her

Yep seems like it, well either when u have time or want to share (coz sharing is caring!) u can tell me all about it *_*
So about fighting fit, well... Feeling like I'm taking advantage of u since I haven't signed up for it, bit guilty there

me

LOL it's all good I'll just tell em u r on a free trial I can do that u know but u know I wasn't lying when I said I don't hit on the girls in my class

so u know, anyway sharing is caring well I'll tell ya what happened but u gotta keep it to urself

well I was waiting for a friend to go out clubbing with her girlfriend drank and smoked too much and by the time she was ok it was late and I cbf going to a club.

her

Hrmmm dilemma there!! ^_* to go to class or not?!!! Bit of a fail there haha, I haven't passed out like that since i was 17

Maybe that is my answer? Haven't been sleeping well lately ;( keep waking up

me

well I had the best sleep Ive had in ages, Id stay home more often but then Id be a loner :p

her

Yeah that'd be a worry! N plus it's not good for u anyhow. The reason u don't hit on girls in class is coz I wasn't in it

me

LOL uh oh now she's tempting me to sacrifice my professional integrity thats naughty :p I think u do enough classes neway

her

Hey don't forget- I'm just a visitor

me

ahah u make a convincing argument there

just dont expet me to go easy on u, I cant be playing favourites ;p

her

What can I say?... Im more than just a pretty face, hahahhahah! Shit I'm funny too:)
Wouldn't expect anything less Tiger! No pain, no gain- as always

her

Were u surprised that i actually showed up last Wednesday?

me
lol actually I was kinda

but it was a pleasant surprise



her

Then y ask me? If you thought I wouldn't?

me

ah actually u asked me

if u look at it, I never mentioned anything about the class until u asked me what time it was

her

Thats not what I remember u asked me to come along at E's drinks!

me

oh lol I dont remember that

her

Yeah! Well Thats how I knew u only work on wednesday nights now:P

me

ahah I must have been a bit tipsy

me

A little... Well I was doin the whole "yes man" thing. I wasn't even gonna go to E's coz I'm pretty shy

me

aww really?

so u just went out because u wanted to 'say yes' to something u dont normally do?

her

Yeah, I find it uncomfortable mingling sometimes especially since i haven't actually been out much of late

Yes man! It's good to try new things

me

wow I'm still trying to get my head around that

u seem cool, Im pretty sure most people think u r cool

her

What's to get your head around? Haha thanks, nice to know someone thinks I'm cool!! It's just me sometimes, lacking self confidence :S

me

That sux, Ive been there tho so I know where ur coming from

I used to be really shy but I got over it and now I have a lot of fun, u should try it I'll show u

her

I'm a quick learner

me

good to know

her

And I wasn't really gonna show up but the whole yes man-living life thing... But for the record, class was awesome. Don't think I said thanks?!

me

haha i think u did but hey its all good

oh lol u make it too easy I could so be making a dirty joke about making u say yes to an number of things ;p

her

But U didn't *_^
... & if u do, I probably wouldn't mind


me

I want to get u hot and sweaty (say yes to this ;p )

in class tomoro

her

Yes... But I wasn't gonna go tomorrow :S

me

aww k, we'll skip the class and go straight to the sweaty ;p

her

Y the awww?

me

just my accent hehe

actually I was looking forward to seeing u again

her

I'll be at pump tomorrow, I'm avoiding getting u into trouble! So really I'm doing u favor.
Plus I'm not the sharing type- I want all the attention *_*

me

good answer you are right u aren't just another pretty face, I like that the combination of brains and beauty is very attractive

I can give you the attention u deserve this weekend if u like

her

Well seems we have something in common then Shame you're only there on Wednesdays though


her

YES man you haven't even asked me for my number...

me

so Im guessing it starts with an 04 ... :p

her

Yeah something like that.
me

if u tell me the rest of the digits I'll ask u out properly

her

Yes man 04** *** ***

her

So is the Deen on tonight?

me

I havnt heard back from my friends yet

I dont hav to work tomoro so I'm keen to do something

her

Lucky duck! Y not?
me


wet weathert sometimes slows work down

:/

her

I c

me

meh its kinda cool to get days off but it also means less money

but this time it means bonus long weekend

her

Yep agree, less money sucks but a long weekend sounds pretty awesome

Curious.. What's on at the deen Thursday nights?

me

brazil night but I think its ending soon

her

Brazil night? As in music?

me

I go with some brazilian friends they really get into it lol

yeah theres like a band downstairs and samba dancing up stairs

her

Dress code?
me

its pretty casual

me

well I havent heard anything from my friends but we can meet without them if you want to say yes... :p

her

Yes, If u got nothing else on

me

yeah lets



her

Right-o, so what's the plans then?

me

meet about 8:30

hav a look at the deen and see if it looks brazilian lol

her

Look when? Now?

me

lol oh yeah u pretty much live next door

but no I meant after we meet

her

Ohhhh oops my bad. Brain not functioning :S
me


oh lol long day for u?

just dont get tipsy and try to take advantage of me :p

her

Yeah, u could say it was a long day.. lol

me


so u wanna met me at...



So we went on a date that night.
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So that was pretty cool, I took her dancing last night and we flirted, laughed, danced and kissed. This girl is definitely into me there is no doubt about that and I felt quite good about the date and she texted me a cute little thanks when she got home.

I feel as though I've really lifted my game recently and this was a great example of me getting it right, from flirting to kino escalation to the kiss close I retty mch did everything by the book (actually a combination of books and programs Ive educated myself with). Everything I've been reading and studying and practising is really coming together now.