Ok so since im working away from my home, I mostly keep in contact with my friends via texting/ aim/ facebook...anyways, theres a girl friend of mine who im trying to sarge, however my only way to get to her is through aim...whenever I talk to her, its 50/50 on who starts the convo...so basically im wondering if i should show more IOI by messaging her more...therefore I can run more game, trying to get her interest up...or should I just leave it at the 50/50 stage??? Also how often is it ok to talk with her if im the one initiating the convo?? Anything you guys could give me would be great

I would recommend that you should let her chase you with messages as much as possible. If however you need to run game, I'd make it like your messaging her to amuse yourself. You could Put a time constraint on it aswell.

"I'm really busy but just wondering how many times you took that photo to get it right" or....

Just nipping out with some mates for a drink and noticed that you're photo of you is makes you look like beaver or whatever si most apt. or....

Fuck me, late again: So are u gonna get real drunk and make a fool of urself agin tonite later or what?
Her hah ha very funny
Me: Later, dont miss me

I think these short ones make you sound busy and interested to that jsut right degree

Always leave them wanting more of your quick wit, charm and humour!

[Is it the case d'ya reckon that if a girl is into you already she will expect you to message her and will avoid messaging you so she doesn'y come off lonley or deperate? I'm interested in this what do people think?]


Much love....

think it varies by person. ive had hb 9/10's constantly im'ing me. they initiate conversation and are more aggressive doing all the escalation. ive had hb 9/10's do a 50/50 or hard to get. but for the most part hb 6/7's are more reserved. think the whole thing depends on the individual and their self conception. im guessing the aggressive ones r usually more assured and know they have their pick while the less aggressive ones r less self assured so play games worrying about how they come off.

altho ive never exclusively sarged online always meet the ppl in person first. which may have a slight effect on things