Background to the journal :
So here is what I am trying to do. I rarely do have time to go to bars to pick up girls as most of the evenings I am busy with my studies. Seriously, life of a grad student sucks. I envy the american undergrads ! Anyway here is my story. I learnt about the game last year from one of my friends who is a member of Project Chicago and did no go out with the intention of picking up chicks even once due to my research commitments. Maybe it was a small price to pay for I was getting back to studies (grad school) after a break of five years. Once I was done with my research commitments, core course requirements and my obsession of going to MIT for PhD (which was not going to do me any good at all) I started going out. Even then to save my time, I decided to get big on online gaming. When I was in India all my successes in laying girls had come from my involvement in motorcycle racing and quizzing, two things that I do not have in the US.
Anyway, I opened an account in OKC after reading some material on this site and started messaging girls. However there was little luck to be had. Also I kept trying in Craigslist but it was filled with fat girls which kinda put me off. Recently I started using openers instead of individual messages in OKC and have notices a marked improvement as I could message a large number of girls in the same amount of time. As of now the plan remains is to get the numbers and go out on dates with girls while fine tuning my dating skills. One thing that I absolutely suck in is my lack of knowledge of popular culture and a lack of presence of mind to give funny replies to questions from girls.
Anyway I have got close to a doze number closes from girls now, and I am going out with one on this Friday evening. I had fixed a date on last Sunday as well, but had to cancel it as I was hungover aftermath a cricket match on Saturday !!
Online Strategy and Game :
Here are snippets of my conversation with one the first sample. Feel free to analyze it and give your opinions which I seek here.
I used Mystery's classic opener in this sample (read girl).
Me : Do you floss your teeth before or after you brush ?
G : Interesting question. I generally floss after I brush my teeth, but I've put some thought into doing it beforehand. How about you, do you floss before or after?
Me :ou know, when you floss is not as important as the fact that this gives subtle clues about ones personality ! I do floss before I brush my teeth. Aah, im not too sure abt u.. u seem kind of shy.. are you ? Seriously, if I am proven wrong, then maybe we could go and save the world !
G : I am shy. I get less shy the better I know somebody. What are you going to save the world from?
Me :rom getting filled with uncool people. We are the two coolest persons on OKC and hence we should get married and have a dozen cool kids. Ha ha. Trust me, we will be doing a huge favor to the society.
G :Well then lets get started!
Me: lol. How about a text date before that ? My name is ****. I am text friendly at 762-***-**** . Text/message me your number.
G :Haha. It probably is best we get to know each other a little better before repopulating the earth. My number is 770-***-**** . I'm only semi-text friendly, meaning I don't have unlimited texts.
Me :Ha ha. That is what this text date i intended for.
G :I figured, but I didn't want to the first text to be wasted...
Text Game :
Then I started moving to texts. Here is the entire conversation that took place through text.
Me: Hi ****** , **** here. Here is to the two coolest persons on OKC texting each other on their text date, cheers
Sample: Haha. Cheers!
Sample: How are you doing this evening?
Me: How is the evening treating you ? Champagne or Drambuie ?
Sample: The evening is treating me just fine. I'm going have to go with champagne.
Me: Aah, I am ashamed of saying this. Keep this secret. I am actually stuck with some homework, while pretending that I am surfing OKC. lol
Sample: Haha. Well I should probably be working on school stuff, but I'm a slacker. What are you studying?
Me: All right , treat yourself with it tonight. Drambuie on our first real date. Okay ?:)
Sample: Okay. I've never had that before. I'm not even sure that I've heard of it.
Me: Chemical Engg.. You go to JHU ? Is it the med school where you study epidemiology ?
Me: Good. Leave that honor to me. It is the sweetest and sexiest smelling liquor on earth. You like to try new drinks ?
Sample: I'm in the school of public health. It's across from the med school. I'm not opposed to trying new drinks. Chemical engineering sounds interesting, but difficult.
Sample: I will admit that my drinking repertoire is quite limited.
Me: I remember seeing that building. Damn, I am jealous. Even better, for I can teach that to you. What do you do for fun in Baltimore ?
Sample: I go to dinner or happy hours sometimes. I like to go to the farmers markets on the weekends. I also shop more than I should. What do you do for fun in Hyattsville? Where is that?
Me: Its right next to College Park. I go to UMD. Mostly I go hiking, climbing, just ride motorcycles or go to bars or restaurants in DC. You been here ?
Sample: I don't think I've been there. I think maybe I've been past it. I've been to bethesda and Rockville, which take me near College Park. In fact, I hope to get a job in Rockville soon. What degree are you working on?
Me: Aah, thats great. Tell me, is it only because of me that you are moving closer to College Park ?
Sample: Of course that's the reason. What other reason could there possibly be?
Me: Aah. you gotta stop thinking about me so much. But I give you the license to do so when we are together.
Sample: I'll try to stop thinking of you so much, but it'll be hard... You're just so cool!
Me: Maybe we should have our babies as soon as possible. For they would be even cooler. What do ya say ? lol
Me: And I shall take that as a compliment. Thanks.
Sample: Well I can't have the babies of someone I've never met, but if I could I bet they'd be even cooler.
Me: Yup, we should. lol You plan on coming towards DC anytime soon ?
Sample: I'm actually going down to Bethesda and to one of the airports down there on Friday. I don't know which airport yet because the friend that I'm taking there doesn't remember.
Me: Is it BWI or Reagan ? How about a date in DC on Friday evening ?
Sample: It's either Reagan or Dulles. BWI would make things too easy. I think I could do Friday evening. I'm not sure what time though. I think my friend needs to be at the airport around 10 or whenever I get tired of her.
Me: You just dropping her off or you are gonna be hanging around with her at the airport till her flight ?
Sample: Well I'm going to do something with her that afternoon/evening and drop her off at the airport to meet her husband. We haven't worked out all of the details yet. She told me to drop her off when I get tired of her.
Me: All right. Gimme a buzz when you get the details sorted out. We could go and do some silly stuff to have fun.
Sample: Okie dokie. What type of silly stuff do you have in mind?
Me: Lets include barhopping, walking beside, walking beside potomac, coffee, window shopping, dancing in the street ( though m not good at it).
Okay wid u ?
Me: Of course we have the option of parting ways prematurely if it doesn't go too well. But I doubt we will need this clause.
Sample: That is fine with me. You just must promise me that you are not a crazy killer and that you won't push me into the Potomac.
Me: lol. I have way more things to do besides the potomac
are you promising me the same in return ? For I would hate to die before having the dozen kids with you ? lol 10:26 PM
Me: Cmon, don't be scared like a little girl now. I was just kidding. Feel free to check my FB account if you want to !
Sample: I promise the same thing. No pushing each other into the Potomac.
Me: Light pushing of each other should be fine as long as it is not forceful to put the other into the Potomac. lol
Sample: I was kidding too. I'm not scared. I have a panic button app on my phone... I can't check your Facebook because I don't know your last name.
Me: Aah, you never know it with girls. lol ******* ***** is my full name. What is yours ? A little knowledge about the other is not a bad thing. Its just talking ovephone that I hate. Brutally kills the excitement of the date ! 10:40 PM
Sample: My name is ****** ****. I'd hate to kill the excitement of the date.
Me: Aah, how on earth there are so many ****** ***** on FB when they dnt appear even half as smart as you ! Why dnt u send me a friend request unless u are very strict about keeping things separate ? 10:46 PM
Sample: Yeah, I know there are tons of ******* **** on Facebook. My parents gave me a very common and easy name on purpose.
Me: Its a cute name. And I like it.
Sample: Well thank you. The commonness of it also makes it slightly more difficult for people to stalk my online. Jk.
Me: lol. Anyway I should be getting back to my homework now. Really enjoyed this text date. Cya on Friday. Till then, lets stay in touch by text/FB message.
Sample: Okay. Have fun with your homework. I should be getting to bed. Good night.
Me: Good night. Take care.
Lessons learnt :
When things are not going right, using one opener after another helps !!
Future plans :
To meet her on this Friday evening, have some quality time with her, make her horny a bit, kiss her while in DC and when she comes to drop me at her place I will invite her to have some Drambuie with me at my house and then fuck her !!
Feel free to comment on it and wish me luck.
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CHAT
Anyway, I texted her and fixed a date on next Saturday night. Another date on Friday night with a german chick as well. And going out with the first of the lot tonight. Will try to bring home and end the game by f-closing her. Will have a lay report by tomorrow ready if everything goes well.