So I got 2 dates. One for tomorrow and one for Friday. I won't be able to have enough spending power to treat both girls equally lol. How do you make the girl pay for the first date/meet up?

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Just do something inexpensive or free. Cup of coffee or meet a mall or park. It's been a while, but I used to meet girls at Barnes & Noble, get some Starbucks there and take her to the erotic book section lol.

Exactly. His advice is excellent.

Dont take a girl out to an expensive place. Its usually too formal and when things dont go to smoothly you feel bad because you've wasted a lot of money. You should be able to do your magic in the above mentioned places.

I usually play rock paper scissors or just pay and make a funny remark about it like (this is a one time thing or your paying next time).

Sorry I've been really busy to check in on time, and I just now read your replies. It was definitely good advice! I'll also break down to you guys what happened. Thursday date was cancelled. But Friday's date was a weird turn of events. Apparently, she told me not to meet up anymore because her bff was depressed so they went out for drinks. So she calls me up around 9 at night and just tells me to come over and give her massage. So I was like, it's on! She has been wanting a massage from me ever since our sexting escalated, and I told her that my massages were too rough and she wont like it, plus i always get turned on when I do them. She said she likes it rough. So while I got to her place, it's exactly what happened, I gave her a massage on her bed while she was facing down while I was on top, I got turned on, told her that I was getting hard, I got up and she reached for cock, then she gave me a bj. Then started taking our clothes off and did it. I was kind of disappointed. Because I really didn't get to game her and use any material, routine, etc. It was just too easy.

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Why do you want two first dates???

You need to learn how to play the game a little better. At least establish enough attraction where you're banging one and have her behaving, before taking on another.

I'll point this out. When I first got good enough, where I'm guessing you are right now; I wanted to be a pimp, super, player! Tried juggling as many women as I could. It will not work.

If you want to juggle women do it one at a time. Once you get to the point of banging one... then get a new one... Try it that way.

okay dude you are seriously good do you coach >?

Are you referring to me? If so, I'm not a coach. I guess I was a natural before I learned about the game. Not a perfect one but I had a good share of girls. I'm still a beginner at the game though. I want to do it by the book. But I guess I should slow it down and go one girl at a time like what dlightmen says. I've juggled girls before in the past. I just got out of a 3 year relationship and had a child from the baby mama, and remained faithful, so my playing days were over once I started fatherhood. Now that I'm out of the relationship, I'm diving in water again but like I said I want to go by the book.

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You are the guy so you need to pay 100% for everything, i know this sounds like bullshit but it's part of the game.. don't fall into the offer to pay trap .

A good women will offer to pay or possibly go dutch on the check.
don't let her under any circumstances.


She'll talk it over with her friends and they'll decide that you are cheap.
You'll never get any lovin.





-TheNaturalPlayboy

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