join a sports club, free friends will be made there

go learn salsa. dude its perfect
a. there are always more women than men. so no partner to bring, pick one there
b. you make female friends automatically if you behave gentleman
c. youll get some femaile wings, awesome
d. when you go out to a salsa club on weekends, you can dance

heard this too many times so in january i will sign up yey =)

personally i avoid talking about ex. it usually just gives negative light, past is past, i like to talk about present and future.. just noting.

i think the classic 3 days wait is stupid. it depends on the girl, if shes a high value bitch, wait a week. is shes hopless romantic, do it on the same date. i dont think you can make a generl rule here.

about the girl.. just tell here this online convo is getting to heavy for fb and you should move it to real live to save your hands from dying of typing

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kool, i reckon i might just do that! dance, dont talk about ex's, gotcha:-D

with this chick, I sent her a facebook add and sent her that message from before. she added me but didnt reply to my message, so Im gone wait a week before sending another message, but obviously the situ is different in that she didnt reply to my first reply. Do I still send another message, and what sort of neg would i use here?

reason Im not following the game here is because, If she didnt reply to my first message, I will make her think iam needy if i send another message? But if i do send another, it should be different from the first and iam not sure how to do this without making myself look needy

peace

I lost track of the different girls you got goin guess your doin good

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i apologise, i was talking about HB7 horse smiley girl, remember i messaged her but no reply:-)
im not doing that well, but hopefully if all goes to plan ill have atleast 2 stories to tell next week=D

I agree with all of these tenfold! I have been wanting to do these lessons forever to become better myself. I've had practice with a couple local girls i have been with but my chacha can still use some work, and as you said fantastic place to meet a bunch of new people. So I'm taking your date and doing it in january myself!

As for your problem don't worry about talking about exes. You should be bringing them into something fun and new with you not reminiscing about what was in the past. Also, you could try commenting on her status with witty small jokes or negs that are different from what other men are posting that usually helps me in facebook game, and you will genuinely get better responses than if you try to IM because they know you realize they are online.

Make sure if you do comment on one of these status make sure it is one they recently posted not one from a week ago, because then it will be obvious you were creeping. It is better if you stumble upon it on your newsfeed

Hey guys, ive got ideas for closing these chicks into real date, so tell me what you think
remember i havent sent any of these messages but iam planing to:-)

for HB6 shy girl, on texts

ME: Hey HB6, Ive was in brum for while, but iam back on the rollacoaster of work again, did you have a good at home, bet the family kept you busy?
Whats youre favourite genre of movies, you into scary ones?

HER: blah blah, no not into scarymovies etc etc

ME:We should hang out some time, watch a dvd, doesn’t have to be a scarry one! Do you fancy popping down to mines tomorrow?

Shes shy, so iam thinking dvd at my place, in a darkish room, be easy for both of us to get affectionate etc etc....right?

HB7 horse smile, iam playing with horse stuff here, in the mesage, but trying to entice her into a responce, so that i can ask for a date and number on the second message. I was planning to send this as another PM as a pose to 'comment on status', which is more like my style, iam not very FBOOK orientated and everyone knows it!?

ME:I have a better angle from which to see youre U smile again (smile)
Neigh, Brrrrr wee hee wee hee clip clop clip :-p Hey it’s a nice picture!

(Then she replies)

And then my second message, will briefly mirror her first message plus the number close.

ME: I’m never really on here that often, and I would love to see your horse smile over a coffee or a walk on the beach, I can feed you oats, you can gallop with me along the countryside it will be soo romantic, so inbox me your number (smiley)

Also I plan to try my luck with HB7 codename: cutey, a girl i knew when was a AFC at uni. I PM-ed her last year, and it was TRULY AFC convo, i looked back to read it and i was embarrassed and sick that i conveyed such a boring image of myself, so anyway its been a year and I THINK shes still single so i plan to PM her again, and try for the date.

ME:Hey, That’s an interesting picture of you standing in NY, I keep thinking Ive seen that pic before!? Bet you cant name all those buildings (smiley)

note: i did comment on her profile pic last time, its the same fuckin one, her standing looking at the new york skyline, but this time my messages will be ALOT better!

If she replies, which iam sure she will, then just go for the usual, iam not on here much, but PM me youre number and next time iam back in town, we can link up for a coffee, it would be great to catch up with you. (i havent seen her in over 4years!) what do you think of this?

Also Ive Fbook closed 2 HB9s from a dating site, theyve given me there facebook adds, but i havent added them, and i did this without a profile picture on the dating site, so once ive added I will need a strategy to number or date close them, so stay tuned folks, but check this post, and tell me where i can improve.
cheers dudes

-if shes so shy, maybe dvd at yours is too far already . we all know dvd means sex id say: watch a dvd at mines or the cinema?!


-take care to not go too far with the horse smile, like, stop before if annoys her


-cutey: do it be PUA


think your dooing great progress in all =)


let us know about HB9s show us a pic cuz i think you set the scale too high for me, no 10 exists. a 10 for me is when you been together for her for a while and she loves you. but its not just looks for me, id even say im sapiosexual

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Romino is right movie at my place is obvious what you want i have never finished a whole movie with a girl that just "went to watch a movie at my place"

With that being resaid don't be afraid to push it with this girl if that's what you want. I normally will just tell the girls to come over when I have time. They always complain about how busy my social life is, and they are well aware how I am when I go out. You should be involved in your own life in their mind they are the piece that is trying to fit into your puzzle so to speak. That is exactly what you need to be "the puzzle" how many times do you find yourself thinking "does she like me" "is she thinking about me or does she have someone else". Now call me crazy but what if you were to impose these thoughts on her and switch the table. Say you are out with someone if she asks you whats up.

Don't be a braggart and say something stupid like "out with this super hot 10 and we are going to fuck monkey style after i jam this expensive linguine down her throat."

Every person i know will send initial texts saying what's up so tell them something out of the ordinary "being dangerous and exciting as usual u?"

YOU are different than her last bf YOU are more exciting than any guy she currently knows. She has to earn your time not the other way around

/signed. so true preps you have to implant in her mind that you are alpha male

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Hey Romino, on youre online POF profile thread, you have advised people to have pictures with friends and with a girl, which is a great idea:-)
Im looking through my pics from this year, and i cant find any with me and a girl let alone a hot girl! and i also dont have on with me and friends, is there an alternative?

I have ones of me on my own whilst wearing a suit, horse riding, prominent sight in london, and another in india infront of amazing building and mountians, then me making a crazy face with ex gf, but i had to photo edit cut her out, because we didnt end well(she wudnt appreciate me putting it up!) but i prefer to keep it coz i have a crazy face, then another of me at wedding dressed smart.

when i get back home later this week i will have a rumage for pics of me with girls 2 yrs ago, maybe family pics and me and mates, but i dont think i have many from within the last 2-3 years. I feel i need newer pic because iam planning to use these pics on facebook. I still dont feel comfortable using pics on dating sites due to my job and in the event i meet potential patient/clients in practice. So my aim is to chat em up online, get facebook names and then add them, so they can then see my pics there. if they like me i cant quickly move into date, because ive already built good rapport but if they dont like the look of me, atleast ive got a cute girl on my FB occassionally popping up in a newsfeed:-) I will try and post pics of HB9s soon, one of em has bailed though, she gave me a fake name:-(. the other is very persistent with adding me on fb, so she can see my pics, so will do soon and shes about a 8-9

Iam also hoping that by putting pics up, people will initiate convo with me first, so any previous failed attempts may reopen to new convo, and then another opp to create rapport/number close or date:-)

ofcourse its a great idea, you have to show that a. you have friends and b. you are pre-selected. but it shouldnt look in a braggy way..

there is not. style yourself and make a photo with a hot girl, can still tell later shes your friend even if shes complete stranger. your sister doesnt count nor do hookers
but if you play the tourist and make a pic on a tourist place, i guess you can convince a girl

never put a pic on your ex up. my personal advise ^^ do you wanna see the ex of your new girl? i dont!

if u can see that its a cut out pic, its bad. what will you say when 1one ask you, why you cut out the other person and who she was? you end up lying. bad.

you should have up to date pics. you can look good, but not much better than in real. wont help you at the first date same goes with those girls puttin up pretty pics of their faces and when u meet them, its a head on a fat ball. does that help them? no. stupid.
im sure you seen taht
http://img64.imageshack.us/img64/3773/f ... r12965.jpg

dont worry aobut the job really. personal and job live, separate it. as long as you dont write stupid stuff or upload pics where ou are smoking weed and sniffin coke, you should be fine.
if you loose 1 client, IF, is that bad?

dont plan on moving to facebook too fast. girls dont like that, belive me. a lot of girls only add ppl after weeks and lot of trust built up. if they add you right away, theyre attention whores.

add pics on the dating sites, at least 8.

lately on average 2 girls write me on POF. from all countries. dont even know how they find me ^^

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Lmao, wasnt thinkng of cutting myself on to a pic with a girl! but good idea!
the pic i have has already been cut, you can just see the tip of her hair in the pic, so the more watchfull peops will suss out that i was sitting next to a girl. I dont think theres anything wrong, other girls will be wondering 'whos that girl'' wouldnt that kinda work towards 'looking pre-selected' ?

But i was seriously thinking of getting an escort for an evening and then taking few photos so i cud put one up on FB:-) lol I cud practice my routines and day game on her!?
but then u sed no hookers!
im going out with few mates next week so hopefully i can get a few pics taken then, so thats the friends pic covered!
just need to sort out a hot girl pic! I texted my HB6 shy gal, i asked if she wanted to go movies, she was interested and sed wen, i sed tmrw (today) and she goes no cant do sunday or monday, but iam in a different part of the country as of tonite so i wont be within her area to make a counter offer. but i did say casual stuff like youre not going to have a chance to see me again (shes going back to her home in 2 weeks, which is 170+miles from me, so i suspect we wont see again) otherwise she would of have been a good pic, coz her face is perfect/very cute, its her physique that lets her down(my diagnosis, too much beef and lamb). i cant say she flaked, i only gave her 12hours notice for a first date!

as for online dating, im talking to this HB8-9, shes hot for me to add her on facebook so she can see what i look like, has asked me twice already. but i reckon ill stick em up on the dating site instead and then see if she still wants to add facebook:-) She probably is an attention whore, but thats better than a real whore right? or not? i dunno

I have still yet to post a message to HB horse face, she hasnt been active recently on facebook for me to neg her so the waiting goes on! tbh i think its been too long, i dont think shell still be interested.

you got me wrong there, dont photoshop yourself in a pic with hot girls, ppl will find out and you look doomed.

cutting yourself out of a pic with a girl is bad too in my opinion, it will look like you had to cut out a ugly girl.

save the moeny for the escort practice. its her job to respond well do you, you pay her. thats no training at all, its even worse. as i said DO NOT make pics with hookers, girls will know.

use friends of friends you just have fun with whatever, a pic is quick taken just make sure they look like they're enjoying themelfs on the pic

today 80% of chicks or more are attention whores. find a way to deal with them: dont give em the attention. dont give a shit you are the one watchign tv, you are not the tv entertaining. do if for you, not for her

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just a quick query dudes. I have told u about this HB8 chick ive been chating to on dating site. we PM-ed for over 3 days, she asks me to add her on facebook to enable to see my pictures, i didnt, instead i put up a bunch of fun pics of me, like the ones i discussed except a pic of me and girl/ i dont have one, and then i sent her a message saying
Ive put some pics up on my profile, so check em out. I like that cardigan ure wearing in ure new pic, nice buttons, did somebody knit that for you?! (smiley).

Two days later :No response back, no comment, so they way i see it, is ive got nothing to loose, I should send her another message, if she dont reply to the next one she fuck off and go suck puzzy. but questions is
1/Do i neg her
2/Do i ask her what she thinks of my pics
3/all of the above
4/do something else entirely?
5/ leave this and move on

Something like, Ive just brainstormed all my ideas below, which ones make sense and would be better, tell me what you think guys:-)

Hey havent heard you squeek in a while, wats wrong, did your pet cat like the taste of your tongue?!
Are we still going to add each other on facebook?
Has anyone ever told you that youre eyes look a little like a foxes, u know the ones with the big ears and large noses (she has an almost perfect face, except slight large tip of nose)
I like youre nose, I bet it wiggles when you talk!?
I bet youre nose wiggles when you talk, its looks like one of those noses!? its cute:-)
Are we still going out on a sheesha date together, I have that packet of skittles u asked for:-)
I know you said facebook, but you still got to see my pictures eventually:-) I would love to try out sheesha with you, so long as you promise not to get me high:-) So inbox me youre number or we are so not sharing that packet of skittles together!? (smiley) / I used skittles opener, so we chatting about that for ages, she didnt kno they were sweets, shes foriegn!
You have really big eyes, The problem is i shoot 10 ropers everytime, so you'd have to wear goggles:-D So inbox me youre number and we should try it sometime? lol
(btw tucker max, is an interesting read, cheers for that suggestion, preps:-D)

Iam reluctant to do 5/ coz i used online gaming techs from this site and then we had long convos online, so something must of been right there, my appearance aint bad, iam a decent looking guy, and i got some 2nd opinions of the pics from a girl mate before puting em up, she okayed em for me. Or simple answer is iam not her 'type' but then surely PUA is all about being like 'water' so that ure successful with as many chicks as possible.

Ill get there eventually!

1 yes
2 no

4 yes. wait a week. if no response till then, write her she doesnt qualify for fb if shes so lame in answering

hehe like the pet tongue and foxx
dont use the wiggle online - only when shes doin it right on time

"are we sill goin" - nah. sounds like you doubt it. never doubt

id go further *but promise not to get me high and rape me! "

dont lol about your own stuff



just to note, ive been doin online sarge for 11 years. last weekend met 6 guys who are also in the PUA stuff. one guy was sick. he had the "i dont give a shit" attitude and it was so much fun sarging on street at evening and bars.
so online got instantly boring for me. cant wait to go on the street again, theres so much tension in real life action try it

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