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PostPosted: Sat Sep 24, 2011 5:09 pm 
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Guess I can give you guys a little field report. Went out last night for the first time with a girl I used this opener with. Went to a spot near my place, shot some pool and had a few drinks. Came back to my place and got it done.


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8) sorry was killing moose and bear 500 miles in the mountains of alaska. Had no cell phone service or internet. It will take a few days to catch up on all this.

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@Darth Vader, you're a LITTLE bit misguided. You're not incorrect, but you're not correct either. The thing with direct game, is you are usually not gonna be "direct" the whole time. When I open with that line, my second message almost always has some kind of tease in it. And the thing is, even the opener isn't completely direct, cuz I'm pulling it back by saying I hope shes not a psycho. The responses that I usually get with that opener are something like "hahahah No! I'm not a psycho, I promise"
Anytime you go direct, you can always pull it back with a tease, so the whole mentality of thinking your giving all your value away or the girl has the upper hand is kind of misguided. The whole mentality should be "I'm a little intrigued, but I'm not completely sold yet."


BUT with that said, I'm trying your opener as well, because indirect game definitely has its place in my heart as well....I got some responses and I just sent the 2nd message, we'll see what happens :)
different girls call for different approaches. I get what you're saying. Remember this is just to trigger a response from her. Where you take your game is up to you.

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Good stuff man. I've gotten a like 85-90% success rate on the replies. The follow up "Hey thanks for helping me win a bet with my buddy." works well too, although it doesn't go far from that though. Its only been day 1 so we'll see how this goes.
If she ask you about the bet. Tell her." Wait a minute this is between me and my friend, if you want in, you're going to have to earn our trust. Something of that nature. Now she is going to try to be accepted by you and your imaginary friend. This will bring her back to kindergarden, where kids always want to be part of an inner circle.

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Guys, don't take it the wrong way but did it ever work on a hot girl? I didn't read a couple pages here but I saw the doctor and blondie pic.


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My results so far:
40 sent
8 replies (after only an hour)

Every girl asked why except for two, one girl said "f*ck off and drop dead ;)" to which I replied "And here I was thinking you could take a joke, I thought you were adorable and wanted to say hi. I'm Cris" to which she replied "oh.... oopsies. sorry" and another thought I was the POF Police. Sent this to a wide variety of girls. More details soon after its really settled in. Thanks Darth Vader

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My results so far:
40 sent
8 replies (after only an hour)

Every girl asked why except for two, one girl said "f*ck off and drop dead ;)" to which I replied "And here I was thinking you could take a joke, I thought you were adorable and wanted to say hi. I'm Cris" to which she replied "oh.... oopsies. sorry" and another thought I was the POF Police. Sent this to a wide variety of girls. More details soon after its really settled in. Thanks Darth Vader
NP Man, let us know when you go on the first date. Remember don't rush on getting the girl on the date. There are girls I've used this on who went out with me a month later. Set them up and knock them down.

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two number closes since Saturday. Not bad if you ask me. The follow up is great but to make it effective you have to play it off and move into something else pretty quickly. Present something shiny and she'll move on. Lord Vader, would you agree?
I concure. If you give a girl to much time to think and conive on how she can milk your attention you will lose her. When I'm talking to a girl I'm like a tornado. She will give me her number before she knows what happens.

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hey all.

i'm a newbie to online dating and to this forum also.

Have been on POF for a couple of weeks and playing around with openers, this one has gotten the most responses, mostly along the lines of 'why' or 'maybe you should delete yours'.

However, the conversation ends after my reply, I changed it around a little;

"I thought you were adorable, I just had to say hi. I hope you can take a joke?
My names .... "


What are you guys saying in your replies to keep this going??
once the trail runs cold start it backup with the reopener.

Tell her "thanks for helping me win a bet with my buddy"

To which her reply will be

her : What bet?

You: Hold on a second, this is between me and my friend. If you want to join our circle you have to earn your way in.
Once the convo runs cold I used the "thanks for helping me win a bet with my buddy"

To which her reply will be

her : What bet?

You: Hold on a second, this is between me and my friend. If you want to join our circle you have to earn your way in.

However I never get a reply to that so I dont know what im doing wrong


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hey all.

i'm a newbie to online dating and to this forum also.

Have been on POF for a couple of weeks and playing around with openers, this one has gotten the most responses, mostly along the lines of 'why' or 'maybe you should delete yours'.

However, the conversation ends after my reply, I changed it around a little;

"I thought you were adorable, I just had to say hi. I hope you can take a joke?
My names .... "


What are you guys saying in your replies to keep this going??
once the trail runs cold start it backup with the reopener.

Tell her "thanks for helping me win a bet with my buddy"

To which her reply will be

her : What bet?

You: Hold on a second, this is between me and my friend. If you want to join our circle you have to earn your way in.
Once the convo runs cold I used the "thanks for helping me win a bet with my buddy"

To which her reply will be

her : What bet?

You: Hold on a second, this is between me and my friend. If you want to join our circle you have to earn your way in.

However I never get a reply to that so I dont know what im doing wrong
I don't know how your conversation went.

You can try.

"Well One Two Three Four Five dollars, just enough to take you to Mcdonalds for our first date. lol =/ "

To which she might go lol... and if she says Mcdonalds is gross tell her you were just checking to see how she would look in 10 years eating Mcdonalds. Tell her after our looks fade all we have is humor. Just put it somewhere in her mind that looks does not matter and it's all about emotions and humor.

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This is how the conversation went:

Me : hey I would remove that picture on your profile

Her : Why?

Me : lol I hope you can take a joke, I thought you were adorable , I just had to say hi

Convo went cold so I reopened with

Me : Hey thanks for helping me win a bet with my buddy.

Her : What bet?

Me : Hold on a second, this is between me and my friend. If you want to join our circle you have to earn your way in.

After saying that I never seem to get a response back. Is there something that Im doing wrong?


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I use the reopener I say "Maybe you can't take a joke?" For me it works better then "Hey thanks for helping me win a bet with my buddy." It gets her to qualify herself which is always a good thing.


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Must say nice line DV. Btw what do you say if she accually does replay (and u dont need to start the gambling re engager). I sent out just one to test. All went pretty much as said.

After I sent: lol I hope you can take a joke, I thought you were adorable, I just had to say hi
I'm NAME.

She replayed: I'm NAME.

you would also use the re engager or start with something else?


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iv tried many openers me an no luck my online game stinks i am just not smart enough to do it but learning it would greatly increase my dates.
iv tried this opener on about 10 differnt pof girls an a 1 9 has gave me a decent reply

Original Message YOU sent on 10/2/2011 9:33:35 AM
hey I would remove that picture on your profile

haha which one

Original Message YOU sent on 10/2/2011 11:13:34 AM
Lol I hope you can take a joke I thought you looked stunning an I just had to say hi
haha i wasnt really sure what u meant i was just grateful dor a message that didnt just say "hi babe ur fit" bla bla bla


Ok my minds gone blank im clueless i dont no what to do i always ask to meet way to soon i no its try an fail but 1 year of trying an getting 3 messages max is bad text game loses me about 85% of girls i meet out its realy depressing. im too thick to understand things.
In person boom i use good body language an dont think an im not great but i can make girls laugh an finally begining to lead.

ps to the author of this page do you do training courses for online/text game i only need like a full day just to understand it so i can take off on my own but just get my pof profile sorted sort out my facebook an some tips an like steps of where to go with it id gladly pay cheers

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Must say nice line DV. Btw what do you say if she accually does replay (and u dont need to start the gambling re engager). I sent out just one to test. All went pretty much as said.

After I sent: lol I hope you can take a joke, I thought you were adorable, I just had to say hi
I'm NAME.

She replayed: I'm NAME.

you would also use the re engager or start with something else?
Usually, if they respond after the first message I'll say some variation of "Good to meet you, hows your night/weekend/life going? I'm not sure how effective that is though, doesn't get that many responses. I'll say this if she says something boring like "I'm NAME". If she says something interesting, go off that, or find something in her profile to comment on. Anyone else have thoughts?


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