GETTING CALED OUT!!!

after the "why" most girls send I have come up with

"Some girls get really bitchy over comments like that, ones sho don't tend to be more down to earth and have good personalities. Sound about right? X"

One girl just replied with "ahhh so your a game player!"

If they can't handle a simple comment like that, imagine what their personality is in real life. I wouldn't want to date a girl that can't take a joke

so tell her yes, you play XBOX just run with it and have fun.

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I just said I was a game player but probably not how she was thinking. Turns out she meant playing games to find out people personalities. Anyway here is a reply I'm playing with when girls ask "why" to the opener

Some girls get really bitchy over comments like that, ones sho don't tend to be more down to earth and have good personalities. Sound about right? X

I think that baits them into dropping guard

Hello, kinda new here been lurking around the forums reading various things. I tried this today, and one of the girls actually removed her pictures. No response. I've found it quite hilarious, Should I just let it go in that case?

Personally I'd send a message and say something like

"LOL did you change that because of my comment? Your actually cute and was just teasing you"

Hey. New here. Thought I would comment on this. I tried it. 6 different women. I only got 3 replies. All three were pretty much the same. "What" or "What pic?" I replied with just joking, etc. No responses after that. One who didn't answer actually made her pic private after I sent the initial email. Lol. I sent her another letting her know it was a joke. Still didn't get a response, but she put her pic back.

I opened w the change your picture message and here's what I got back. This girl is smokin and saw she viewed mh profile on match after.
What's my best reply to this?

Is that the pick-up line that is guaranteed to make the ladies respond? Or is there something legitimately wrong with that particular picture? Because I am a teacher, and I can't afford to have anything that can be deemed *inappropriate* online. Please offer some insight...

lol this opener works good..
When they ask why, I normally hit them back with a clever/funny response.
My last one was too clever though..

her: y?
me: Well I think you are very cute, but whataburger is bad for you.. If you get fat by the time you are 25, we would have to get divorced
her: Wow I don't even eat whataburger that cup is from my ex don't eat fast food period and There are two things I would never do Is eat fast food and date you good bye!

lol she hit me hard.. funny times though.

Reply to the opener that's working for me:

When they say "why"

"because I think your 2nd picture is better, not saying there is anything wrong with the others "

Obviously change the picture number to what you think is better. It's actually a bit of a neg.

hey it works...so how to escalate?..this is good stuff...but tell us step by step how to take it from web to a actual date?

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when she replies with "why"

either reply with a message like in the original post, or something funny but with a NEG similar to what Gizmo wrote..

With the original post.. if they find you attractive. they will write you back with something like "hi to you also cutie" or something like that.. After that the lil joke thing is over.. At this time I hit them with a random question.. Kind of like a qualifier to see how spontaneous or open to new things they are. You reply to their answer in a good spirited manner.. and they will probably ask you a question "who do you like to do" or "why are you on POF?" once it comes to this you got her and should be # closing soon.

This opener is to build tension, then you need to find a way to release it. There is a million ways you can come back to release that tension between you and her.

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its a travisty that you have not recieved a nobel prize. online sarging seemed near impossible before this!

Me: Hey. Id get rid of that picture on your profile

Her: Nov 13, 2011 – 4:56pm
and why is that?
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Me: Nov 13, 2011 – 5:05pm
Haha Im just messin with ya. Hope you can take a joke. I came across your profile and thought you were a sexy little creature. My names Cody. What are you up to?

Her: Nov 13, 2011 – 5:28pm
just wondering if you get a lot of ass saying things like that to girls ; ) i like your style
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Me: Nov 13, 2011 – 5:31pm
Its still in testing. Ive only tried it twice so far. Crashed and burned the first time, it wasnt pretty...

Her: Nov 13, 2011 – 5:32pm
hahahaha. ur funny
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Her: Nov 13, 2011 – 5:33pm
I'm just watching Louis CK on netflix.
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Me: Nov 13, 2011 – 5:34pm
Oh nice. You know its Sunday right? You should be watching football. You just lost 5 points...

Her: Nov 13, 2011 – 5:35pm
so did you ; )
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Me: Nov 13, 2011 – 5:36pm
I cant lose points. Im the one giving them out. And Im watching football. no matter what you do you will never attain as many points as me haha. Text me, 6268252559. Im Cody by the way

Her: Nov 13, 2011 – 5:43pm
I can't text you right now. but i'm miriaha. can you pronounce that mr. I-Get-All-the-Points-And-Never-Ever-Lose-Them?
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Me: Nov 13, 2011 – 5:47pm
Its either just like Mariah, or its some weird pronunciation like Meer-ah-ha or something

Her: Nov 13, 2011 – 5:49pm
wow check out the brains on cody! impressive....
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Me: Nov 13, 2011 – 5:49pm
Well ya know...haha. I told ya. There nothing you can do to get me to lose points.

Her: Nov 13, 2011 – 5:52pm
hmmm...i like you....i'll hit you up later
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Me: Nov 13, 2011 – 5:55pm
Is that a promise or a threat? And I sensed a little bit of a challenge on trying to get me to lose points...now Im kinda excited : )

Her: Nov 13, 2011 – 5:59pm
you should be ; )

Easy stuff kiddos! Ill admit that I had a few turn me down too, but yall gotta try this. Its super fun and makes this almost too easy. I have like 20 girls that Im just waiting to use the "abusive relationship" line on that didnt keep the conversation going, but most of them are pretty responsive.

Wow, plan backfired, lol. I told her to remove her pic and she replied with "No, I think YOU need to remove your pic, speak for ur self damn it..."
damn... this girl is harsh. I did kinda deserve it though.