Thanks! She is gonna be here when the university starts (end of august). She's a study abroad student from Bulgaria and wants to take part in my bar crawl for the new students of my university.

"Try and fail, but don't fail to try."




This is a well known Stephen Kaggwa quote, you'll win points if she knows it.


Not gonna lie, I kinda wish I was on the other end of this game, always so much fun when they play a long.

sigh...the life of a guy in a relationship lol

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

LOL! I like that quote.

ME: That is something we'll have to see. Won't we, ma'am?
HB: so is there a test? interesting...

I would like to change subject or shouldnt I?

At this point I'd move on, too much witty banter on one subject can come across as "try hard"


You know the girl better than I, but I'd set up a meet (if you haven't)

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

But she is in Bulgaria right now. she will be here at the end of august when university starts.

If you don't want to move on just yet you can drop a little CnF

"No test, I'm just not easy to please"


(this has a small double entendre built in as well)

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

Ouch, that's gonna be hard to keep the interest up that long...Best of luck.

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

Indeed!! holy shit... I have no idea how to keep her interested.

Honestly, you may want to close contact with high interest....It really sucks to do because your both having fun and all but...Keeping up with good steam for 3 weeks to a month is not an easy task. Dropping off for a week or so come back for a day and back off might be a good idea. Always drop off at a convo high point you want to keep her thinking about you, if you drop off at a low point your easier to forget. Come back and hold strong for a few day's before she's back and get face to face.


Don Draper - I've never had to hold for more than two weeks, whats your input?

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

Well, I am great at the slow burn game. I strung along a girl for two months before we met.

We had sex *during* the first date.

The basic strategy to use is that you have to continuously keep the interest level on her end. Show her different sides of you, if you're cocky for a while, become vulnerable on some night, if you're uptight on some days, be a dork on the others... Basically, she will be amazed at the depth you project and you will become a challenge to her. She will want to figure you out and try to know everything about you. As I see it, you have two more weeks. Not that long a time when compared to mine. Share stories with her, get her to share her stories, talk about all kinds of things, yes, even the stupid ones. One night I just spent talking to this girl about how romantic comedies are giving women and men wrong ideas. That debate went on for 4 hours.

My point is, there is no shortage of things to discuss. Find them. Ask open ended questions, give her vague replies sometimes, on some days be quiet, brash on the others.

Variation is the key to interest.

All the best.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

Don you are a God among boys my friend.

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

Please.

I'm very honored.

I'm just a 20 year old who's officially an engineering student and plays football for kicks. Dork, not God. Haha

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

haha, well respect anyway. good stuff coming from you.

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

Wow guys! I'm 20 but never happened to me a girl like this! Seriously.

update:

ME: No test, I'm just not easy to please
HB: so you think i'll try to please you?
ME: I don't know...you will?
HB: Any good reason to do that (except the drink)?
ME: I'm honest, confident and smart. All 3 good reasons to do that. And... who are you (expect your mischievous streak)?
HB: i am... happy to have met an honest, confident and smart person

I don't know how to turn the conversation... she's pretty smart. lol

Don and Vitamin, thanks for helping. I'm trying to learn from what you both are advising me. I appreciate it. seriously.

Tell her, "Likewise. It's refreshing to be having this conversation with you. So what do you think of.."

and change the topic.

Simple.

And you're welcome. We're always here to help.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "