ugh how could i be so stupid, fell for it to. i thoguht it was suspicious but i was getting a few replies and thought nothing of it. fuck well i sent in a complaint and told them to cancel me i guess we'll see what happens

I have some background with merchant accounts, and credit card billing, especially online.

The first step should always be to ask them for a refund.
If you don't get a refund immediately just visit your bank and ask them to do a chargeback. That's completely legal as it's clearly a scam. Once you do a chargeback they'll get charged additional chargeback fees by their processor, and if their percentage of chargebacks is too high they'll loose their merchant account quickly.

That means by doing a chargeback you'll hurt them three times, make it clear in your email that you're doing them a favor asking for a refund, you could also simply go to your bank and ask for a chargeback without giving them a chance for a refund.

Gut duped as well! Same pics of girls in different areas, they even placed the same pic next to each other with different names in different villages! What idiots, but who paid? Me! Anyone managed to find a phone number to contact them? I had a long email chat with customer services about the Miss World's in my local hamlets in the New Forest! There is no one less than 60 and yet dozens of stunning looking women live there! I spoke to customer services who said they are real but Rudefinder could not be responsible for misleading people as they pay and if they put down false info then it was their choice! I tried to explain why would anyone pay £37 to get laid with false info !!they must think we are thick but when we find out the truth it's tt late they do not do refunds. Is there a solicitor viewing who can advise what to do if paid by credit card not SPAM? Well good luck everyone, you will need it if you want to get laid using this bogus site

We too paid for rudefinder and believe it is a fake site ripping off people...When we requested a refund suddenly everyone was viewing us and sending emails...Which again is bullshit...
No real conversations. No real people for hooking up, discretely...Let us know if you get your refund....

File a complaint with the Federal Trade Commission. They've spanked a number of sites including AdultFriendFinder for similar tactics.

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Hi Guys, I fell for the scam as well. Their pricing, website etc all looks so real. You only realise it is a con after you have signed up and do searches, that come back with hot women who all live in a village that has 10 people in, or the ethnic make up is all wrong from knowing your local area.

Any way i have emailed them to cancel and have had no reply. I paid by visa debit card, so i am going to have to get the card cancelled, so they cant claim the fee in 3 months time.

On a positive note i have used Sex in the UK, and the majority of people are genuine, there are some fake profiles on there, but these are the minority (and obvious model look and women with pro photos). It is a ratio of 5 -1 men to women, but we have the edge with PUA knowledge. Mystery method techniques have helped in meet ups.

I fell for this crap too, feel like a proper dick...

I'm asking for a refund, shall see where that goes. Who can we complain to in the UK??

For the guy that recommended we go to our bank and ask for a chargeback. If I was to do that would that cancel the subscription on their end?[/quote]

[quote="Walddo"]Hey guys, anyone seen this site? Is it legit in just random lays? I was only on there for about 15 minutes just looking at different women, and almost instantly got e-mails from girls whose profile I had checked out.

So I came to 2 conclusions.
1. The girls are not girls at all, but paid employees of the site on fake accounts trying to get guys to sign up so they can "reply".
2. These girls are just overly aggressive given the setting and really just wanna fu**.

Anyone had any experience on this site?[/quote]

RESPONSE: Your assumption the "female" posters on this site might not be women at all is entirely possible. Also, after only a few days on this site I was contacted by numerous "women" who listed a United States location but actually admitted they were located in Africa. I proceeded to follow the site rules regarding the reporting of scammers but interestingly enough the site administrators do not remove the offending profiles, they only inhibit messages to be sent to the scamming party.

This site is full of fakes. After joining, you will start to receive fake winks and fake e-mails. If you try responding to an e-mail, you are sent to payment page.

Whats worse there is an account that's using my pictures. They refuse to remove my stolen pictures and my stolen name.

Who is their billing company. We need to take legal action against this guy who has created a total scam site.

hey guys, why did you pay for using online dating sites??? Look for free online dating sites. I know one of them it is completely free to use so there are no such fakes or spam. Go to meetgirlsguys com

In my opinion, all the profiles are fake on there. They all seem to fall in my 45-45-10 categories:
45% of them are cam whores who try to get you to sign up for some other site so you can see their cam show. And they seem to have perfected quick travel over long distances. You could be chatting with someone (their profile says they live in New York, and I live in Phoenix), and after you tell them no to their cam show, they ask if you want to meet up since now they live near you. Total bullshit.

45% of them are spammers who just want your email address so they can send you junk mail (usually more fake profiles on other sites to get you to sign up there). There have been some who sent messages off of different profiles with different pictures, but asking you to message them at the SAME email address.

The last 10% goes to the scammers from Ghana, Nigeria, the Phillippines, and Russia or it's former republics. They send you emails with pictures (come on, pretty white girls living in Ghana and Nigeria?), and claim that you are the person they have been looking for. Then they throw in some sad story to try and get you to send them money - usually for medical bills they have, education costs, or for plane fare to come and see you.

Luckily, the guy who told me to check out this site also paid for my membership. I also did a little research, so I had an idea of what to expect when communicating with people on the site.

Rudefinder will rip you off!!! Try free dating sites - one of them i found - meetgirlsguys com

that's not the only site they're running. there's also

justhookup.com
naughtyover40.com
cupidswand.com
dateagency.com
datefirst.com
findmelove.com

if you whois the domains it tells you the details of the person who owns them.