"i went to carmel high school.

since ur on spring break next week, ur gonna come out with me to broad ripple some time. we could meet there. that way u can see me smile! lol"

she asked what school i went to in the message before

lol I think you did well DTM. You told her she was going to instead of asking.

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well she replied, looks like im good

"hmm...I think that could be arranged. Have any spots in Ripple that you like to go to? ...we can smile together lol"

You're in. So in. Run with it.

I want see a Field Report on this one when yall hangout!

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she said shes free every night so i set things up for monday. gonna do sort of a chill thing...im gonna show her how to play pool at this bar i like to go to (she said she likes playing pool). its not too loud, but not dead there so its the perfect place. Pool = plenty of opportunities for kino. she wants me to teach her how to hold the stick. perfect way to get my body close to her and my arms around her

i will give a field report

Me thinks she wants to hold more than one stick . . .

well i think she got cold feet u guys. im not sure what i did wrong

sunday night, after recieving the message about how she wants me to teach her pool and how shes free every night after 9pm, i sent her a message. i said "alright then, monday night. Whats ur phone number?"

i didnt hear from her by 9:45PM monday, so i said fuk it and went out to play pool with a friend. before i left, i sent her a comment that said:
"well im headed out with a friend tonite. we should definetly play pool some time. give me ur number so we can set it up

later"

her last login was 3/10 (monday) so she had to have recieved these messages. i guess she got cold feet. its kinda weird because she seemed pretty excited about it, she said "I am pretty much free anytime after 9. Let me know!" in the last message she sent to me. she used an exclaimation mark...

Well, either

A) Something happened and when she last logged in she only had time to check her messages but not reply, so she'll explain when she gets a chance.

B) You messed up when you first replied with what Tripp said to say. You don't even know this girl yet you immediately brought up meeting up with her after she sent you a friend request. In my experience that communicates she already won you over without having to do shit, which is unattractive to women and makes you appear needy and low value. If I'm correct the rest of the convo was basically geared towards meeting up, as opposed to qualifying her, grounding your identity, etc. right? So even though it sounded like a sure thing maybe she got cold feet at the end and realized "wait a minute I don't even know this guy."

or

C) It was never gonna happen no matter what because like you said, it seemed to good to be true, or too easy. Maybe she's gained 15 lbs since her pictures, I dunno.


Let us know what happens bro.

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we exchanged several messages about where we go to school, what we like to do, etc. before i even thought about asking her to meet up. she seemed really excited to meet, that makes me wonder how i did anything wrong. btw she didnt add me as a friend, she just sent me a message and i replied. it was later that i sent her a friend request, then she accepted

i suppose i shouldnt send ANYTHING to her unless she replies to me

you've asked for her number twice already..

just relax, dot something else for now and wait..seem busy..ignore her for abit, she knows you're interested anyways....

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Really? Ok, I know I'm not perfect, but come on, I wasn't off base on that one.

My bad bro, message/friend request (both are an IOI). I know you mentioned you told her you went to carmel high school and stuff, I'm not sure how the rest of the comfort building went. So if you're comfortable, pasting the entire convo makes it easier to tell what might have gone wrong. I didn't know you sent her a friend request later on. I have a strict rule of not sending a girl a friend request until after you have closed her OR you decide you just want to utilize her for social proof comments and not pursue her.

I need to disclose that I live in LA, which I believe is the toughest area to run myspace game besides San Diego. The girls are anything but down to earth and forgiving, so maybe some of my techniques aren't necessary for others. I know from experience you can be more straight forward and down to earth in cities like Denver and even NYC.

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ok i took the time to put it in order from first message to last (instead of the other way around) so just start reading it.

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: *KJ*
Date: Mar 4, 2008 9:35 PM


You should smile more, show off those pearly whites...


----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Dan
Date: Mar 4, 2008 9:11 PM


First, you have to meet me in person, then you can earn a smile from me

how did you find me?



----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: *KJ*
Date: Mar 5, 2008 11:05 PM


haha perhaps I will have to do that. I found you because I was bored last night and everyone always finds me that I don't know, so I figured I'd browse too.

How's it going?


----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Dan
Date: Mar 6, 2008 12:46 PM


Things are goin great, ive got spring break next week, plus its my birthday next thursday. I read on your profile ur going to school, when is ur spring break?

you have really nice hair by the way


----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: *KJ*
Date: Mar 6, 2008 11:31 PM


I go to Indiana Wesleyan, but only one day a week so I pretty much always have a spring break. now if I could just have a vacation from work then I'd be set. What school are you going to?

I love the hair comment by the way, unexpected but def. you too



----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Dan
Date: Mar 6, 2008 11:12 PM


So do you commute there? I already have a degree in automotive technology from Ivy Tech, and now im taking another semester of general education classes so i can transfer to Indiana State. So do you like to go out clubbin/dancing? Where do you usually go? I live kinda close to broad ripple so i go there alot. sometimes i go downtown. Im supposed to go downtown tomorrow night with a bunch of friends, but if it snows real bad we might not. I cant wait till spring


----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: *KJ*
Date: Mar 8, 2008 6:02 PM


Yeah I commute there, but just so you know it isnt the campus in Marion, it's just right off 96th. Yeah I love to go dancing. I just turned 21 on feb 9th so every chance I can go out I do. Broad rippls is my favorite especialy peppers, but I like the Vogue too! I can't wait til sping either. I flourish in warm weather, snow in march is just depressing as all hell. What are you wanting to get at Indiana State?



----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Dan
Date: Mar 8, 2008 3:19 PM


wow thats cool, i didnt know they had a campus on 96th. i live right around 96th and keystone.

i love cars and working on them, but its just not the best thing to be doing when you get old, so im going to ISU for either automotive management (like managing a shop, or owning your own shop) or industrial management. There is also another degree in their industrial tech department that im thinking about.

where did you go to highschool?


----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: *KJ*
Date: Mar 8, 2008 7:14 PM


Yeah that's right where my building is. Keystone and 96th. Sounds fun about your degrees. I wanted to be a mechanic and own my own shop for girls because women get taken advantage alot. It would have been like an auto spa hahaha.
I wasn't ale to take the mechanic class though because I had to have a year of something before it and it was my senior year . I went to Lawrence North un fortunately, what about you?


----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Dan
Date: Mar 9, 2008 1:57 AM


i went to carmel high school.

since ur on spring break next week, ur gonna come out with me to broad ripple some time. we could meet there. that way u can see me smile! lol


----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: *KJ*
Date: Mar 9, 2008 6:50 PM


hmm...I think that could be arranged. Have any spots in Ripple that you like to go to? ...we can smile together lol



----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Dan
Date: Mar 9, 2008 5:39 PM


well it depends on how im feelin that night. if i want to just chill and play pool i like to go to Chumleys, Average Joes, or The Alley Cat. If im gonna dance i go to Landsharks or the Vogue. do you know how to play pool?



----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: *KJ*
Date: Mar 9, 2008 9:26 PM


haha I wasn't born yesterday . I can play pool, we go to the fox and hound often on 82nd steet if you've ever been there. I will say I am not the greatest though lol. I am the queen of scratching, but I need someone to help me learn how to hold the stick.


----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Dan
Date: Mar 9, 2008 7:15 PM


sweet, i can teach you. i'd say my skill level is about average, maybe higher. im getting better. We should play pool some time at Average Joes...the tables are only 50 cents and they just had the felt and bumpers replaced. so when are u free?


----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: *KJ*
Date: Mar 9, 2008 11:07 PM


geeze that's cheap. The fox and the hound charge 10 an hour. And that is sometimes how long it takes to play one game lol. I am pretty much free anytime after 9. Let me know!

To me, it's kind of AFC in places, such as you jumped in right away and offered to teach her how to play pool, then turned around and asked when she's free, so it's like . . . I have tons of time and I really want to get with you so let me throw myself out there.

See what I'm saying? Of course, I'm not king of online stuff either . . .