It seems like Tinder is going to depend on how you look more than anything else.

Pretty much the same for real life too If you think about it

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Yeah that's true - but in Tinder you literally can't even send them a message unless they think you're hot

In real life, you can always go up and take a shot

Agreed, That's why I prefer POF so I can break the ice with my messages, as opposed to my balding head and big nose.

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Think about it.. An average looking girl using Tinder.
Tinder is about 80% horny men. All of a girl's matches would try to get in her pants, or at least talk.. Which means she will have dozens of new messages every day. The trick is to make her interested, be special, and then get her number.
The only good thing about Tinder is that there are lots of horny girls there and the trick, after starting to talk to the girl, is to find out how to turn her wild side on.

Tip: Never start off with 'Hey'

Surprisingly this app has worked very well for me. I am actually very selective with the right swipes only choosing 8-10s. I live in NYC and there are a TON of women on this so therefore a bunch of high quality women. I think you also get better looking women the more selective you are but I could be wrong.

Every woman I have been matched with I have gotten their number within a few exchanges. I believe you have to go in differently i.e not Hello or What's up but something creative about what they are wearing in a picture something that shows you actually looked at the pic and if they write something even better pick up something on that. And ask them to meet up for a drink etc quickly in the exchange that night! If they are busy make it the next night and get their number. I have had a few give me their numbers without asking. I am above average looking but no model.

I have have gone on dates with just about everyone unless they are a wacko after speaking on the phone... not texting. I am 35 and the women in my range are 29-35 respond better to phone calls than texting (we didn't grow up with texting). If you can hold a conversation and be interesting and intuitive to what they want to be told it is easy to get a date that night.

Be aggressive without being a dick and go in strong.

Hope this helps.

Surprisingly this app has worked very well for me. I am actually very selective with the right swipes only choosing 8-10s. I live in NYC and there are a TON of women on this so therefore a bunch of high quality women. I think you also get better looking women the more selective you are but I could be wrong.

Every woman I have been matched with I have gotten their number within a few exchanges. I believe you have to go in differently i.e not Hello or What's up but something creative about what they are wearing in a picture something that shows you actually looked at the pic and if they write something even better pick up something on that. And ask them to meet up for a drink etc quickly in the exchange that night! If they are busy make it the next night and get their number. I have had a few give me their numbers without asking. I am above average looking but no model.

I have have gone on dates with just about everyone unless they are a wacko after speaking on the phone... not texting. I am 35 and the women in my range are 29-35 respond better to phone calls than texting (we didn't grow up with texting). If you can hold a conversation and be interesting and intuitive to what they want to be told it is easy to get a date that night.

Be aggressive without being a dick and go in strong.

Hope this helps.

First off, swipe away. 2 matches a day is low. Have profile pictures that show you are light and playful.

Your first message has decent intent, but it gives her nothing to respond to. Light and playful is the key. Anyone who says Tinder is difficult just isn't playing the game right.

Hit me up if you have a more specific question.

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