High210, use information you have with your openers, don't just use a canned generic opener. Canned openers work great in live game because there is nothing to go by. Online, you have much more information about the woman before you even open, USE IT! Also, don't be afraid to just ask. If you have had a back and forth of even two or three messages each, just ask for her number and say you should meet up. GIRLS ARE ON HERE TO MEET GUYS! I literally will just end a message with, what are you up to this week, we should meet up sometime and sign it, even if it sounds like it doesn't flow from what the convo was about, it doesn't matter. The goal is to get a meeting, not to make a penpal.

The Fury (obviously I use my real name here)
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[quote="TheFury"]GIRLS ARE ON HERE TO MEET GUYS!

I second that. High210, send out a ton of messages every day. Whichever chicks respond, just roll with those and pretty much say whatever (you can used canned stuff, but really anything works). I'd say after about four messages, just straight up ask her for her phone number. Just say, "Hey, do you want to text sometime? I don't really get on here that much." Simple as that. If she responds, you got her number. If she doesn't, there are plenty of fish in the sea.