lmao

hey i invited these girlies if you dont mind:

NO I DON'T MIND AT ALL!!!

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I need some advise on this situation: About 2 years ago when I was not in the community and basically an afc I picked up this hb10 at a party. Through several other interactions on following dates I gamed her all the way through seduction. Things were good for a while and then I went away for school so didn't talk much to her, and she basically flaked out which could have been attributed to be not understanding pu at that time. I recently messaged her online just some small talk and she wrote back (Hey! How are you? I haven't talked to you forever!!! Call me this weekend, we should hang out!!!) First of all I don't have her number cause I erased it but maybe should somehow ask for it in a way to present a iod since I have allready given her an ioi by messaging her. Also how should I approach going out with her cause I dont think I should fall into her frame of going out with her this weekend and also it would not be in my environment or by my lead?

Although this isn't really an online specific question I want to answer it because it's a good one. True you showed interest in her by contacting her. You don't have her phone number, and we need to get it. However, we don't want to sound needy..

"Hey I got a replacement phone not long ago, and everything got erased, what's your number again?"

Go out with her this weekend, but do it on your terms. She's leaving an open door for you, and you're going to walk through it but with some conditions. I'd say something like...

"I'm pretty busy this weekend hanging out with friends, but you can come hang out with us if you want?" -OR- "I have a lot of errands to do this weekend, and get caught up, but you can hang out with me while I do them if you want?"

This way she entering your world on your terms, and you aren't falling into her frame. Just make her feel like she's a 3rd wheel in a manner of speaking. If she feels that way, especially at first, it will make things easier when you do want to show her some IOIs.

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hey J, I went with the "your an attractive girl, but beauty is common, what else do you have going for you other than your looks?" It worked great, I f- closed her the next night. My texting game was great once i got her number. I used metaphors and representation to make her think about and bring up sex without either one of us mentioning it, now I am trying to turn it into a relationship. Thanks a lot for the advice I might have done something AFC without it

AWESOME! Great job on the F- Close too! Glad the advise helped.

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So a friend is trying to set me up with a friend - she told him to give her a shout out on facebook ( see my pics, etc... )

What should I say in the message? She is like a HB6, but still, don't want to sound AFC.

Okay, I'm a little confused here. I understand a friend is trying to set you up with a friend. That makes sense. Where you lost me is "She told him (who's him, is this you?) to give her a shout out on facebook."

With someone who is an HB6 any amount of false disqualifiers you use will be good. You won't have to neg too much either. I would just be fairly direct with her as to if you like her or not. This will be more than likely the best course of action.

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Great read!

Much Appreciated!

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Im new to the whole online pick up side of things so need a good reply for the following

So this girl added me as a friend on bebo, i accepted her and sent the following comment;

"hey arent you that girl who molested me the other night at that club ? naughty, naughty... (smilie emoticon with tongue sticking out)

She replied;

"U whaa!?!!" (and sent me a love heart)

So whats a good reply to send her ?

Bucks, I don't write scripts for people typically. The reason for this is because this amounts to an endless series of questions I get. The second part is if I help you write a lot of what to tell her, and you get to meet her in person it won't be congruent to who you are. So with being said, here are some suggestions I have. You may need to reword them.

*Now could be a good time to change threads since you have her attention. You can start a DHV story from this. With something like, "Oh my god, today I was reminded of the time when...." Then start your DHV story.

*You could also use it to have her qualify to you some. With something like, "You know you're pretty cute in your picture, is the more to you than just your looks, or is that how you've gotten this far in life."

There are several ways to take it. If you're following Mystery Method then after opening it's time to use DHV routines and story stacks. Either way you want to get her involved at this point.

Good Luck & Welcome to the Forum!

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Just reading one of your above posts J, you said 'if she is an HB 6 you should'nt have to neg her too much'. Is it really a good idea to neg HB 6's? I suppose it depends on how heavy the neg is and how you rate girls.
I dont neg (not on perpuse) but i dont game 9 and 10's (no nightgame/limiting beliefs) i've found it doesn't exactly do me any good.
(7.5's and below) I do take the micky and that (i dont see this as negging), but i think its best just to disqualify and show un-intrest without having to neg.

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Agreed! Typically for anything below HB7 just showing some disinterest at first is enough. Making her qualify herself to you is another good way to reinforce this. Neg theory was more designed for 9s and 10s. I do however know some HB6s with some rather large protection shields. In which case one or two "light" negs may in fact be helpful.

Good Point Mozy.

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What is your position on using netspeech, things like LOL, OMG, or more specifically JK?