Adding my endorsement for this opener, it is awesome.

Approx 70% response.

The power of it is actually quite disturbing, I've had HBs delete profiles, and remove pictures, without even bothering to respond to the initial message.

Found it works best on the HBs 8 upwards who try to deflect it with a "yeah whatever" type response.

But you need a seriously cocky big balls profile to pull off the response, put them in their place, and get them eating out of your hand.

While this does get responses the conversation doesn't seem to really go anywhere after you come back with the 'you're adorable' part.

I mean it doesn't put them in a position to keep the conversation going, I sent this to maybe 5 girls and 3 replied but only 1 ever talked after my first reply.

I just don't get how this opener actually works to get conversations started, it seems to mostly just get the girls worried they have something bad in one of their pictures and they'll talk to you just long enough to figure out what that is.

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-TheKrush

I'm not here to put people down but to get help in areas I need it, and to offer help in areas I feel confident in.

I suggest reading a book called Magic Bullets. It outlines the process, from an irl perspective.
-opener (to engage conversation)
- transition (to get off the opener, and get conversation flowing)


Vader provided a transition to help people out. If that is not working for you, come up with another transition. You'll learn more by coming up with your own material, and failing.. Then by copying and pasting other's

I've use vader's transition, it works okay for me. I do get some "read deleted" after the transition... but it's okay... Nothing is chick magnet magic. It all comes down to your pics and profile. Those are the true bottom line online.

It's just like going into a night club. You gotta have good body language, be well groomed, AND have some game.

Yeah I'm trying different things, but I'm really trying to avoid falling into the 1 message I send to 50 girls scenario. I try to gauge it based on their profiles.

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-TheKrush

I'm not here to put people down but to get help in areas I need it, and to offer help in areas I feel confident in.

just be spontaneous.

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this thing its gold. used a few times already and good responses so far.

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-Fasxination-

I send her this but I didn't received reply. However...... I met her in the university accomodation!!!! I was with my mate and apperantly she was his SPAM! And I met her in reality, it was wierd, I asked her why she was so mean, but she said that she wasn't and that actualy her SPAM texted me back... Anyway we met on the stairs so there was no time for talking. But she is fucking hot, any ideas what should I do next?

What is SPAM? So sh'es your mates friend?. If so have a get together and find and use speed seduction and mystery method to get her. Don't email her again, that'll be creepy to her

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I need help on this. Okay so ive been using your opener and so far good result. I used on this HB9 who i happen to know and im trying to reconnect with her and this is how it went so far.

Me:Hey I would remove that picture on your profile

HB:why??

Me: Lol, I hope you can take a joke. I thought you were adorable, just had to say hi.

HB:Hello!! u didnt forget about me huh! lol

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Now thats definately an IOI but i have not encounter that response yet. I dont want to say something like "of course not' because that will make me seem like a AFC. My question is, what can i reply to this? Because i want to save the "thanks for helping me win a bet" line for later on if the conversation starts to slow down.

best regards,

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WHAT?! that is like a free meal ticket.

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Ok need help with this one:

ME
hey I would remove that picture on your profile

HB
Sorry, do I know you?!

ME
lol I hope you can take a joke, I thought you were adorable , I just had to say hi,

I'm *NAME*

HB
Oh right, hello.

Then we started playing question game... here are the last questions:

ME
Cow, I like the idea that someone would drink my milk...

Wyr be hungover for the rest of your life, or have no legs?

HB
Hahahaha . Be hungover, I'd feel deprived if I couldn't keep fit!

ME
Great what kind of sport do you do? (BTW do you have hangover now? I am asking because you forgot to ask me a question again lol)

HB
Hockey, football and horse riding and no I don't, I'm just busy

ME
hehe well I used to play football back in *country*, wanna try it 1 on 1 and see who is the best?

HB
Tricky question, I'll have to get back to you on that one, it's mind boggling!



So she didn't said yes, but didn't said no either. I am not sure if she is just being polite or she really are considering to take a challange lol?

Should I write something back to her now or wait and then write something back if she doesn't reply?

She's being kinda nice. She's not interested, and is starting to get irritated. Aren't there any more Facebook girls in your area?

I'm guessing you're on Facebook because she asked if she knows you. Eventually (if she has not already) she's gonna ask mutual friends, "Who is this guy". I get that all the time from chicks when mutual guy friends of mine look at my friends list and start hitting on chicks. it is HUGE DLV.

I'd wait and let it blow over. Move to the next girl and when you feel bored hit her back.

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I used it tonight on a bunch of profiles. While Ive gotten a decent amount of responses, the hot ones are still acting like they have a chip on thier shoulder. The 4-7s have no problem latching on to me cuz they obviously dont get the attention too often. Its been like 4 hours or so and Ive seen maybe 10 emails out of the maybe 50 ive sent out. More to come tomorrow. Check out my profile too if you guys dont mind. Id love any and all insight on how to make it better. RVZFan86 on POF

Guna try this one now. I like it's potential.