So heres the story
Met a girl in college, hb9, a year ago. Had a friendly convo with her a few times. At the end of the year, she gave me a ton of IOIs like grabbing my work, and even asked me to hang out for a bit after class. Didnt pursue because I was in a long term relationship of 4 years. She gave me her instagram but didnt follow. Admittedly, i did stalk her from time to time lol
Recently broke up with said girlfriend and remembered hb9 and lool at instagram and she had a pic with her bf... oh well
Now ex girlfriend and I were in T.G.I Fridays talking things over and my waitress ends up being that HB9. I make her laugh, flirt a bit, yada yada yada. (Always wondered what would happen if I actually tried to go for it with her)
I end up finding her Instagram and follow her and she follows back. I notice the boyfriend pic no longer there and no pics of them together... I send her a message and she doesnt reply. A good buddy of mines goes back to tgif a few days later and shes working again. He wings me, we are a little more fun that night. Convo goes ...
Me: any cool places around here to go to for halloween? Friends all want to do something but Im not familiar with this area...
Hb9 : oh hahah tbh, idk you can go blah or you can go blah...
*Instagram msg her again nxt day*
Me: thanks for some of the suggestions, some were pretty decent...
She doesnt reply
*i post a video of me working with kids (martial arts instructor)* she likes my video
She replies a day later
Hb9: hahaha u liked my ideas?
Me: tbh they werent that bad. On a scale of 1 to 10, most were 1s but the others were solid 2s!
Hb9: hahahah lol! Sorry i really didnt know...
Me: how was your halloween?
Hb9: good yours?
Me: we went to a few bars then ended up at tgif lol. You?
Hb9: went trick or treat with friends little brothers then watched horror movie
Me: oh into horror moves??
Hb9: love em
Me: have you seen the new horror movie?
Hb9: nope i havent actually. You?
Me: nope, but heres an idea. Friday night, we'll go watch it if im available... youre a lot more fun in person hahah
Hb9: i cant friday i have plans with fam. And work sat and sunday
Me: oh fam time is cool. Girl, i wasnt going to ask you about the weekend, lol you need to earn my weekend time. Get a tag, ill call u when its ur number
Hb9: hahahah ok
Me: How about this, give me your number. I wanna know the real (name) *i coldread*
No response
*i go out friday night, sat and sunday and post a pic with friends and girls every time*
She likes every single one of them at certain times so I get a feeling shes actually working. (U can see if they like other peoples posts)
Monday:
Me: congrats!
Hb9: hahaha
for what? Btw sry i didnt reply, i was really busy
Me: cause i was just thinking about u, that hardly happens so congrats
Hb9:
oooooh hahaa okay!
*5 random texts*
Me: keep your friday night open. ive never been to an authentic pizza place and sat around and hung out so we"ll do that. Hope u like pineapple.
Hb9: hahahah unfortunately I work on friday
Me: what day are you free thats not monday wed thursday or friday
Hb9: i do have to tell you though I have a bf. Im sorry
Me: oh you must have thought i was hittinf on you... i was just trying to be nice and meet new people
Hb9:
ohhh hahaha ok
Me: and i have 3 kids soo.... but hey i gotta do stuffs, we'll talk later...
Hb9: ok sounds good
Hours later
Me: i just made u look at your phone for no reason HA! looks like i got u figured... *seen*
Next morning:
Me: morning sunshine!
help!!! Pick a nunber, 1 or 7!
*cold*
Put new pics
*no likes, still cold*
Sorry for long post, first time posting. Text game is horrid! Did go out on sunday night and got a hb7 number though at bowling alley. She was 19 though and im 24 and tbh, I lost her number
Critique where did I go wrong? Tried looking a lot into text game here
CHAT
