this extremely beautiful girl((not to be cliche perfect 10)) contacted me to express interest and there were a couple of messages exchanged she opened with:"God wity and not smart are so my thing!". I was really tired and wasn't careful on how much I wrote or the amount. none of the messages I sent were abrasive or insulting. in fact, I asked one of the questions in the past to other girls and recieved responses.. what I'm wondering is if you send 3-4 short random messages which don't allow for "push/pull" is there no recovery??

In the past I've said "hey I was really tired last night, I hope those random messages got lost in the black hole of missed/unwanted/random messages"

This seems to have become a sticking point where I don't think where the conversation is going...

I am going to give you THE magic line to seduction, this works particular well for girls that are interested in you, hope you're ready for this, I have been cleaning the ladies back at home and I wasn't going to reveal any of my tips, but today is your lucky day,

Are you ready...?













BE NORMAL

Allow me to expand, reply to her messages and let her game you since SHE is the one that messaged YOU. There would be more sex on this forum if people would learn to switch the fucking 'game mode' off that is cock blocking them.
Wtf is this shit

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I'm aware too many messages can appear as desperate or take away from whatever element is being used....

I'm looking for a recovery here

Post up the transcript, word for word, i will teach you how to be a normal human being.

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Man, that was cringe worthy, why so many messages?

edit- i typed out a massive hypothetical conversation but i would be easier if you were to just read this: viewtopic.php?f=53&t=189023

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How about this:

hey I had way too many drinks from a office party last night. Hopefully my incoherent messages got lost in the black hole of random messages.... so what are you getting me for Christmas? I may give you the gift of my number.... jk

How about no. Just delete her and swipe right a couple of times more.

NEVER excuse yourself from your behaviour.

you fucked up. you looked needy and desesperate, and that girl probably took screenshots of your convo and sent them to her friends. they do this shit

Lisent, i recommend you to chill. text her in a couple of days with a good, small opener that causes interes from her and mystery, keep the convo flowing, just answer a message at a time, she stops answering, chill. you got plenty more stuff to do than wait for answer from a girl on the phone, right? if she takes 30 mins to answer a message, you take 15-25 mins. dont over react as well. make her react. make her laugh, if she laughs and what youre saying and you dont react a lot, youre gaining her interest back. keep doing that and shell be the one trying to keep the conversation flowing.

with over react i mean , a lot of messages ina row. a lot of emojis, "hahahahahaha omggg" "LOL"

i also recommend to make grammar mistakes every once in a while, it reflects that you are busy and youre not focusing all of your time by texting her a perfect message.

We both played pro tennis and college ncaa tennis.. I really fucked up the delivery and sent this way too early... the joke was a bit risky, but had worked in the past with a friend who played college soccer

I blow things with really hot women with my text game: either with too much(no patience) or try to hard with something better said in person

Please step away from the cell phone, at least 270 yards,

Not only did it not make sense, you then sent way too many texts and then apologised. This is going up in my 'top worst texts' black book

Solution - BE NORMAL, like I originally posted

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Scarcity.

I can't see the whole text log but just from the one that's a lot of text. Why not save these mundane conversations for when you meet? Until then keep it light, funny, and flirty.