So when messaging someone for the first couple of times I always end messages in a question such as What sort of music are you into, or What would your ideal first date be? etc. So is this a good idea? I'm not sure whether to always end in a question or not, I want to give her something to respond to. I haven't had many girls ask me questions and get to know me so I think maybe because I am always leading they don't get a chance, any pointers?

It always goes like this:

Me:Hey _____,

So what are you most passionate about?

Her:Blah Blah Blah...you?

Me "My answer" Then another question.

Rinse and repeat so maybe I should not ask another question?

why don"t you ask her that in person,messages suppose to be light and fun

^ This is just too much man! ^ It's WAY too serious of a hoop for her to jump through, if girls asked me those sort of questions on Facebook, I would be probably stop talking to her

Try to use statements most of the time. Make it fun, I have situations where girls have asked me what I do for a living after sex, because I illicit emotional content at the time that leads shit away from the mundane conversational topics.

Here is just a quick example on my phone:



Notice that I am talking about the current food i'm eating and I ended it with a vulgar innuendo

She then asked me to call her, then she told me she finished work and is tired, I told her 'Stripping can be pretty tiring huh?' and then we went onto a hypothetically role play that we are both strippers and we'd give each other discount to each other. So to put it quite simply I am conveying my traits as opposed to seeking rapport, girls are emotional, men are logical, this is basic advice

Here is another:



This girl was quite sexual so kept the content equal. I don't think she even asked me what I did for a living.

My advice, stop logically get to know these girls before you've even met them, save it for face to face. Focus on creating fun vibe with an element of a sexual undertone. But for heaven sake, stop being so serious

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I'll 2nd the creating a fun vibe with sexual undertones. On a separate note, Dragula, careful with that Sonia one, she might have a dick from the looks of it.

You wish

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