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| Koolor | PostPosted: Fri Nov 20, 2015 9:29 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Oct 20, 2014 4:05 am Posts: 14 | | I think pua has led a lot of people to believe you can get any girl you want.
This is totally untrue, pua is to increase the general chances with this travel/high value looking life that will better attract the overall female population. However you know 100% in life there is no such thing as "universal", not even talking pua here. For example, you want something strong it is generally heavy, you want something light weight it is generally weaker. Now pua seeks the middle, have a little bit of this have a little bit of that to better attract to overall population the "universal". However universal trades on some of the special advantages of yourself.
What the hell do I mean by this? Kayne got Kim. Kim Khardashian has a specific type for very dark men. Us white guys can DHV and Travel to our arms fall off, we wont ever get a Kim. So with our universal pua profile we are going to lose out on these specialty types where as you win. However as a general population I would say yes you lose out on more but for every disadvantage there is an advantage. You can get Kim, we cant. So my point is find a place where you can use your disadvantage (being dark skinned) to your advantage. I'm saying what Dragula basically said just from a different perspective.
You can also use your skin color to your advantage for online profiles too. Look at some of the most famous comedians of all time, not only do they embrace their race but they use it to their advantage in routines. Dave chapelle made a whole skit on the N word and it's funny as hell. It's a certain type of confidence that you can embrace your own race and make fun of it at the same time. Use it to your advantage!
Good luck!
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| ealltech | PostPosted: Wed Dec 16, 2015 7:55 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Dec 02, 2015 10:01 am Posts: 19 | | How your race affects your chances kinda depends on a bunch of things. Like if you're a black guy in a white small town with racial lines, then your chances would be reduced. If you're a black guy in Africa and want the non white girls who live there, your chances are better because these girls may be more open to/have done interracial dating.
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| misher | PostPosted: Sun Jan 10, 2016 4:17 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Jan 04, 2016 4:11 am Posts: 24 | | I'll tell you now being half asian with your looks favouring your asian side sucks balls.
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| Melodical | PostPosted: Sun Jan 10, 2016 10:45 am | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sun Jan 24, 2010 5:46 pm Posts: 880 Location: Newcastle | | You got to play the cards you've been given bud. If there's nothing you can do about a situation then leave it and move on otherwise you end up with a self limiting belief.
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| misher | PostPosted: Sun Jan 10, 2016 5:42 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Jan 04, 2016 4:11 am Posts: 24 | | Totally true, was just something I noticed. Asian girls are very attractive to white guys but not asian guys to white girls.
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| OG_Kdub | PostPosted: Sun Jan 17, 2016 6:44 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Mon Apr 04, 2011 6:24 pm Posts: 234 | | It's very true depending on the type of girls you are attracted to. If you're black and you like Asian or White girls, you're at a disadvantage cause online people tend to show their colors more. Most Asian and White girls online only date white guys, so with them you got to play the numbers game.
The key to success in finding those few that are open minded is your pictures.
If you are not that good looking or overweight, the tweaks you need is your fashion and clean groomed think GQ. If you're taking pics no selfies and no pictures with kids(nieces, nephews, etc.) and blur out faces if you insist on using group pics.
Hope this helps
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| ealltech | PostPosted: Thu Mar 31, 2016 3:00 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Dec 02, 2015 10:01 am Posts: 19 | | How your race affects your chances kinda depends on a bunch of things. Like if you're a black guy in a white small town with racial lines, then your chances would be reduced. If you're a black guy in Africa and want the non white girls who live there, your chances are better because these girls may be more open to/have done interracial dating.
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| zookmaster | PostPosted: Fri Apr 15, 2016 2:06 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Wed Mar 23, 2011 8:38 pm Posts: 227 | | Yeah it does.
Weird though that at the club I work at I get tons of girls jumping on me asking me for my number but online I don't even get any girls checking out my profile.
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| dlightmen | PostPosted: Fri Apr 15, 2016 8:37 pm | |
Joined: Sat Jul 11, 2009 10:48 am Posts: 844 | | I don't know unless its demographics of females who use online dating. I've seen a few attractive females in my area who pretty much say flat-out on their profile, "I'm only into black guys.".
With some women it may fighting an uphill battle, for sure. But I'd guess a lot it could be something else other than racial barriers.
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