So we matched a few days ago and we exchanged a few messages. Didn't text a lot but didn't set up a date because I was traveling. She asked me for if to follow but didn't and sent me hers, I didn't follow her. She said yes to going out and suggested me a day that will work for her. Isughested time and she's like this works for me better. I was like cool, shoot me your number, it's easier to set up! And then she goes cold. This was until yesterday. And I haven't texted a lot. Just kept funny and to the point.

Is she just looking for validation? Or just playing hard. She's unbelievably hot and super liked me.

How do I re-initiate? Today being the day we are suppose to go out?


And then other website, this chick suggested to a drink, I asked for her number and she goes cold too!

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They're having many many options on the ol' tinder my broth. Chalk it up to the game as they say.

Lol! So does in real life, that shouldn't stop us. If you would re intiate, how would do that?

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On tinder they're consistently being badgered and all guys are mentality "tinder guys" until they transfer onto the text messages. Its waves. Tinders the first wave. Phone is the second wave. Meet up is the third wave.

Reinitiating wouldn't be of any use. I take it you don't get a lot of tinder matches?

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Yeah i don't get any tinder matches.

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she just sounds like a time waster.. Fuck her and get swiping.

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Congruence test, this is a trap. She isn't asking/suggesting you for a drink, she is just seeing how easy/available you are and you walked right into it and that is a no reply. You're probably thinking now "ok I will act like a challenge next time that happens" nah don't do that. I have done that many-a-times to no success, a girl will offer to get a drink/whatever and I will say something cocky and funny "you're moving too quickly for me " or something bs like that. Never worked. Why? Well I have a bunch of reasons but ultimately this is a girl's brain and logic does not apply here. Just do yourself a favor and next time they say something along those lines say "Maybe, I have been really busy lately trying to achieve my goals". I said that once to a girl when I was in a spot of my life where I was doing exactly that and the second I said that it was like pressing the "moist button". The girl went from casual flirty to crazed rapist. Ever since then it's been the gold standard and it works flawlessly.
Also work on your grammar, girls are the worse grammar nazi's they see and notice every mistake you make and you will be blown out of the water in no time.

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Thanks man.

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