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PostPosted: Tue Sep 29, 2015 3:07 am 
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I was chatting it up with this female and I couldn't get the number. This is how it went down. She had a pic on her profile of a meme basically saying if your 5'7 and say you like short girls your just short yourself. I messaged her that it was really funny. She agrees with a few comments and lols. I ask her how tall is she. She answers. I joke around about height then she asks what am I looking for in from this site.

Me: Single ready to mingle. Lol

I get no respond

Me: Ha-ha naw life is always better with cool people around you. What about you?"
She: looking for anything idc
Me: Serious relationship, friends with benefits, friend, or enemy lol?
She: anything but enemy
Me: (Trying to be funny) Well I'm looking for an enemy right now, will you be my enemy :)
She: Ha Sure
Me: So since I had to keep my friends close and enemies closer, so since you bout to become a new rival. I need to argue with you about spontaneous things at random times. So I'm going to need your number.

Then nothing, I've message a few more times but I get nothing. Where did I go wrong and can I fix this?


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 29, 2015 7:47 pm 
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Personally, when a girl asks what you are looking for, you should be honest. If you're looking for sex then say it, in a low key type of way, like it's natural and normal.

Your replies sounded like you were looking for sex, but did not have the guts to say it openly/clearly. This type of half way things seem to turn off women in my experience.

Next time, try to say it with conviction. What's the worst that can happen? that she disappears...well she wasn't looking for the same thing as you anyway then. But from my experience, she will like your honesty enough to listen to you a little longer...


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 29, 2015 8:20 pm 
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Her replies were too short with no investment. Bad time to ask for the date. When girls do this, you need to BUST THEIR BALLS until you get some life out of her messages.

More investment.

Ask for date when only when it has some back and forth momentum and she is asking you questions and seems curious. That's when you know you got a good lead. The girl in this story, she was a bad lead the whole time.

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PostPosted: Tue Sep 29, 2015 9:56 pm 
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Thank you both but I was actually not looking for sex. I was looking to hang out and chill. Is there a better way to ask for a friend to chill with?


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 29, 2015 9:58 pm 
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but I was actually not looking for sex. I was looking to hang out and chill
Hahaha Netflix and chill huh?

So if she told you to go over to her house and fuck her brains out, are you telling us you will just chill? Lol

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 30, 2015 2:36 am 
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but I was actually not looking for sex. I was looking to hang out and chill
Hahaha Netflix and chill huh?

So if she told you to go over to her house and fuck her brains out, are you telling us you will just chill? Lol
Haha you got me. I'm just saying that, sex is not my main focus.


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 30, 2015 5:54 am 
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Okay. Welcome to the pua forum

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Then nothing, I've message a few more times but I get nothing. Where did I go wrong and can I fix this?
you dont. move on bro

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 15, 2015 2:31 am 
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Then nothing, I've message a few more times but I get nothing. Where did I go wrong and can I fix this?
Way too try hard.
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Me: Ha-ha naw life is always better with cool people around you. What about you?"
She: looking for anything idc
Here she is blatantly blowing you off. You respond by trying harder (rewarding bad behavior):
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Me: Serious relationship, friends with benefits, friend, or enemy lol?
Not a bad response if she is showing you interest and is invested. Terrible in this situation. A better response here would have been:
"I can tell you're going to be a pain in the ass [punishing her bad behavior] I might have to hit on you [sets up another frame giving her the opportunity to accept or reject]."

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