so I was talking to this girl ( Goth, single mom, 19) on pof

me:you seem clever ,good with words, observant, and deep thinking ( using a cold read based on astrology )

her:How can you hate cats? ( I have joke in my profile about thinking kitten are ugly )
me:lol it's a joke
so many people all say the same things on this site , I wanted to shake things up
her:Oh okie good lol. Scared me there for a sec
me:so what's your name?

i'm (my name)
her :Hi (my name)! I'm jacque
me:nice to meet you Jacque, is that pronounced like Jacob ?
her:Its pronounced Jackie
me:okay, so you play the piano and the pipe organ that's cool what kind of music do you listen to ? ( she said she like to play those in her profile)
her:Irish and Gothic British
me:
cool, I listen to a lot of metal, some of it folk metal,
do you own a horse? ( she said she like to ride horses )
her:I wish!
me:yeah, they are amazing animals strong and free,
I like your hair by the way
her: Thank you!
me:no problem,
I got to go get something to eat in a minute
if you wanna talk more send me your number and i'll text you later.
bye

( nothing , and yes I did get of the website for like 45 minutes)

A 19-yr old goth single mother?

And you're clearly already hung up on her - you created a thread for a really, really benign text/exchange... Forget about her, man... There's millions of others (who aren't 19-yr old goth single mothers).

Learn from your mistakes here too... Your messages were really un-engaging and unexciting. I don't really blame her for not wanting to continue talking to you. You created no attraction and no reason for her to take the initiative and create a contact profile with your number in her phone...

Be wittier, edgier and funnier next time... And don't focus on just one girl.

thanks, I'm trying to work on my banter
sometimes it seems totally random what works and what doesn't