i am looking for an big database of online field reports.

from TINDER to MATCH to POF... what PUAs are OPENING with, then how they are keeping the convo going and then how they are setting up the date

like the whole convo... i know if i can get access to like 50 of them... i can just read over them a few times, really internalize what they are doing, and be able to apply it myself...

if you know where i can find something like this lmk

Jeffy from RSD has a thing out now about this.

Really though, if you are looking to get the date, keep conversation to a minimal. Tinder is very useful for people who actually want to meet up and date. You can pop a picture onto your moments and meet up with people while you are out, or use it to find out which of your prospects is down to go *here* and *when.*

Basically, if you want things that work, look at things that actually make women's profiles stand out to you, and use that as a framework for your profile.

Pictures are very important. Positivity is important. Things like smoking, over-consumption of alcohol, sub-par living and mobility will detract from your goal. You should be comfortable with these things regardless of your situation. Own it, but keep your profile as a medium to sell yourself.

Keep selfies for your facebook or instagram. Activities beget activity on your profile. You work out? You run 5ks? You went to a concert? You volunteer for charity? You enjoy surfing? Let the pictures in your profile reflect who you are as a person, and draw interest in those that view it.

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Dates, in all honest are pretty easy. BUT IMO, you should focus more on for what you can get. Not what you can do for some random chick on the Internet.

I mean, if I work with a lady in the office, and start to "like" her. More than likely I'll ask her out, and want to show her a great time. Take her to dinner, then to hockey, then out for drinks.

However, I now refuse (and you should to) to take some chick out I've met on a online dating site. She has a car, she has a job. She can come to my place wearing pretty underwear or wine and dine me. Period.