Hi,

Recently I chatted with a girl I expressed interest(more like love) 8 months back after she telling me that she is in a long distance thing. At that time, she asked if I had a girl friend and I said no. Since I didn't ask her out in last 8 month, I thought of doing that but didn't get to meet her and also didn't want to approach directly by going up to her work place. So chatted which went very bad. How better I would have handled the objection and low value'ing? Anyways she is not in office anymore, so no more contact now. Have started gaming since few days, but haven't gone anywhere yet.


Me: "Girl's Name", pretty girl, black eyes, fashion inclined, fav color: orange wine person, has gone missing today. Do u know about her whereabouts?

Girl: hahaha
I have no idea who she is
Me: same here.. but I believe she will be found in break room at 3:30pm for a coffee..
would u like to meet her?
Girl: She sounds predictable and boring
Me: have heard she is smart and fun.. lets explore her together and then decide..
Girl: I would but I have to prep for a meeting
Me: don't worry.. she will help you unwind with a nice glass of wine@7:30pm
Girl: Ha! That would be nice
Me: good.. this gentleman will meet you at "office location" @7:30pm..
work well till then..
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Me:Not seeing "Girl's name" anywhere near "office location".
Girl: Haha...don't mind my saying this but I think you need a girlfriend, "my name"
Me: Omg.. U can save me.. Plz convince me over lunch tomo.. Wil u help?
Girl: Don't think I can
Me: Do not think. And u can. And I am not that hard to convince
Girl: haha I'd rather not. Sorry
Me: Would it make a difference if I bring some burger for you tomo?
I can grab some from this bday party I am in.
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Eh you did okay but near the end you kinda came off needy instead of persistent. Esp when you hit her up the second time, from what I can see she's taking your messages that your world revolves around her. That's why she's acting kind of cold, she's trying to be nice and brush it off. You haven't built enough attraction, and with the messages you've shown, no matter how busy she is, you'll drop what your doing for her. Instead of going out of your way looking for reasons to hang out with her and doing things you wouldn't do if it wasn't for her, do what you want to do and invite her, and when she brings the girlfriend line up again, do not feed into it, all she was doing was testing your response. Your response this early into the game shouldn't involve her, or if it does, you should be teasing her saying something along the lines of her thinking about it. You're chasing bts when she should be chasing you.