So here is the deal, im like thousands of miles from home and there has always been this girl back home who I always thought was cute. When I lived back home, she knew me, I knew her. It was just one of those hey how are you type of deals. One she always had a bf, plus I had a rather busy life, so I never put any effort in it. Well im heading home for a few weeks within the next month. Well I added her on FB (side note, I am pretty sure she is single now) I needed her to help me with a present for a family member before I come home. She does it for a job so it wasn't really that weird to ask. Well so we talk on FB but its pretty much just about her making the present. Yet I feel like there is a little flirting, nothing crazy. She dropped the whole " that was so sweet" comment, which who knows what that exactly means. I know the whole smiley face thing is a plus, but its like every reply. The issue is how do I turn this into something...... My life is busy so I don't really have time to chase HB, so its safe to say that im rusty. My issue before was that I chased too hard, so I try not messaging her immediately or sometimes wait till the next day. She is not one of those "just to sleep with" kind of girls, definitely the relationship type. Any advice would be awesome

What is your goal here then?

Sex?
Girl Friend?
Wife?

In any case you cannot get the relationship, without 1st having the attraction and seduction.

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Girlfriend is the goal, my issue has always been that when I commit to wanting the girl, I chase too hard.