Hi,

I'll start off, Ive never been great at pulling women so thought I'd give Tinder a go and selected some decent pics ( I think), me with my dog, in a smart jacket, couple of daft ones and couple with my mates. My BIO just says "do girls ever send the first message on Tinder?" - seems to work great - had at least 3 girls say somehting like "some times we do".

Now one of them who sent me a message, we had a bit of banter on tinder even though she did say "she liked the dog in the pic more than me" i gave some excuse about my tinder always crashing and gave her my number and told her to SPAM me which she did. Quite a few messages were sent back and forth sometimes I felt it was going well then it seemed to drop into the depths of despair so I decided to just go for it and ask her out her
her - if I wasnt at work I might have said yes
me - so when are you free?
her - busy next few days before going away for a few days on thursday but following week might be good
me - ok sounds godo, when youre back we'll sort it out
her - if you manage to keep interest for 2 weeks then yeah
me - suppose you will just have to keep me interested until you get back
her - well i was gonna say it should be the other way round and that youre gonna need to keep me interested seeing as we agreed youre pulling me and im pulling your dog
her - FYI i like good morning and good night texts
me - you sound a bit high maintenance already
her - am i too much for you to handle?
me - Ill say good morning to you in person
her - hahahaha confident

after that we have messaged back and forth quite a lot but its all been dull stuff about what we're doing and why we moved here blah blah so I decided it was time to stop messaging her aimless drivel and get some help. I havent replied to her last text which was about 8 hours ago as I wanted to get some help and suggestions and make sure my next message has a point to it and also some general advice on how I should play it seeing as it might be 2 weeks til I actually get to meet her, do I carrying on messaging her? how often? Can I use her absence to my advantage by getting her sexually wound up so when she comes back shes desperate to meet me? if so how? All advice welcome

Also seeing as she directly mentioned it should i send good morning & night texts or just blantantly ignore her request?

Cheers

Interesting thread.
My opinion is you should play the High-value male approach.
You're clear in your intent (you want her), but not needy or compliant to her ridiculous requests.
For example send a random good morning text at an unexpected time of the day during the week - this is just to mess with her (pretending you're following her rules/requests but obviously screwing up just to show her she can't handle you - cause you're the man, the leader.
She might be very hot and worth hanging in there for the close, but no girl should cause you to dance on one feet just to please her amusement. You impose your pace, your game, your will, your fun, your vide; and then she gets sucked into it, attracted to you - or you just ditch her for another one. (Remember to keep your pipeline full or you'll be needy quite fast to any random chick you're talking to)

Btw, since you're using Tinder, you should check out this new iphone app called FaceMatch where you can discover and chat with new people. It's quite new and growing. Looking forward to hear your stories about your texting game on those apps

I like the random good morning text idea, def gonna do that!!

Thanks for the input

One number isn't enough I'm currently at 8 from tinder with 2 more request for numbers.. Only have interest in 2 of them really but seems more people to talk to.

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I've got a couple of numbers but Tinder girls seem pretty odd e.g. one sends me a message saying "some girls send the first message " I reply somehtign about one of her pictures, no reply and then deletes me.

Where I live it isnt that popular yet which doesnt help either