Update-
Successfully opened to a HB8 but I'm extremely new at this and don't want to screw this.


Me:
Hey there,
Do you like milk with ice?

Her:
Lol,.never tried it

Me:
Shame, strike one already :p but a chance for redemption. Do u like brownies with ice cream or without?

Her:
With

Me:
another strike, but you are cute, what's your name?

Her:
Jadie. And you

Me:
Nice to meet you Jadie, I'm Tayo. Idk how much you like kayaking but ive been dreaming up a trip to Colorado to take on some class 5 rapids using plastic spoons. I could use a partner, you in?

Her:
Lol, sure. I'll bring the spoons

Me:
great... but there is a waiver that needs to be signed, is there a number where you can be reached?

Her:
Lol, yes there is

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Was hoping she'd just give me her number or say no, but that was a naive thought. Just looking for any ideas on how to proceed. Appreciate it!

maybe you complimented her to quick honestly i would have said "you look decent so whats your name "


but look at her page to see what she's interested in, and indirectly push the convo that direction for instance

if she likes animals you can say this
"nice to meet you Jadie, im ___, idk if you like animal but ive always wanted a pet (insert favortie animal or random over the top animal) named jadie"

but gaming online still needs confidence because a lack of confidence will make you word something the wrong way and end up messing you up, so be confident with what you say and make it interesting

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

Thank you for the ideas!

She likes kayaking, so I went with:

Nice to meet you Jadie, I'm Tayo. Idk how much like kayaking but ive been dreaming up a trip to Colorado to take on some class 5 rapids using plastic spoons. I could use a partner, you in?


If she says yes in any form, I will inform her that a waiver will need to be signed and ask where she can be reached (need close) if she says no... I'll have to be more creative but still go go for the number close.

that plastic spoon line was genius

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

edited main post, need advice

good just ask her for the number lol.....just say "well type it here __________ and ill make sure to contact you within the next 7 business days"

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

Extended the conversation a little bit, she gave me her facebook, talked for a day and got a date! It'll be the first date since transitioning from AFC... I pray i won't f*ck it up.

good job man, ill pray for you also even tho i pretty sure you won't fuck up

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie