Howdy Gents,

There is this girl I went on a date with like two years ago. I met her on POF. I know she liked me, but we had way too much build-up before the date, and she didn't want to kiss. At the time, I thought she just didn't like me, but I've had a lot more experience with girls and build-up before dates since, and things have happened to open my eyes....

After the date I told her I didn't feel a spark and left it at that for quite a while. I chatted her up some months later and we became friends on Facebook. Over that time, she's gotten a boyfriend.

So anyway, while she was with the boyfriend, I saw her at a club nearby. I walked up to her, and she tried to kiss me, right on the dance floor, in front of her friends, and she had a boyfriend. I don't think she was drunk.

She and the boyfriend ended up breaking up about a month later (this was about two months ago). I noticed yesterday that I had accidentally blocked her on Facebook (not sure how it happened). I unblocked her and sent her a message explaining what happened with a friend request, and she accepted right away. We then proceeded to exchange some likes on each others' posts (I liked one of her pictures and she liked one of my posts about my job), and I said "Thank you" via message. She responded with "Your welcome."

Officially, she and I are friends, but there is clearly some level of attraction that neither of us have ever acted upon.

I am going to be seeing this girl at a concert in the near future, and, while I think at this point, I am pretty good at my floor game, I am wondering if anyone has any pointers. Insight into this particular situation is greatly appreciated.