So met a girl from POF Friday night for drinks. We've been texting/phoning each other for like 4 days and she agreed to come meet me for drinks. Solid 7/10. Interaction over drinks was pretty good. Went for a walk after. She then agreed to come over to my place to watch a movie so I figured (probably mistakenly because after she agreed, I loosened my game up a bit) that she was realllly DTF. Anyways, mostly made out during movie, touching over bra etc. But, I think because I let up my game a bit and relaxed out too much, I didn't build enough attraction. I went to rub crotch but she kept LMR, so small freezeouts then and focused back on movie. She kept resisting, saying "Calm down", usually ignored and kept kissing. Then she made up some excuse about going home because parents wanted her home (she's 23 but lives with parents cause still going school). Anyways, I kept pushing but realized I was getting needy while she kept reiterating she had to go home. So pretty much ended it there and she left.

Kicking myself seeing where I went wrong and how I SHOULD HAVE F-closed but at the same time trying to not care either haha.

Anyways, I'm wondering how/when to text her back? I'm leaning towards giving it a day or two before I text her back but kind of lost on how to open/what to talk about (Just run same text game as before?) and build attraction + comfort again.

There's a difference between being pushy and being needy. If I make an effort to close a girl and don't get it, I personally don't ever contact her again except in very rare circumstances.

I don't have a lot of experience being pushy on f-closes; TBH, I think poorly of people who do that. I've experimented with it before when I had too many prospects but I let the girls out of it if they didn't want to do it.

She may or may not respond; if she does, invite her out on the second message or you won't get another chance. You are looking at a low-probability prospect in either event.

Act like it never happened. Keep gaming her the same way you were before the date. If she found the interaction exciting enough to go on the date and was attracted enough to go to your house, then she will respond. But DO NOT discuss details about what happened. If she mentions it, just respond casually but don't get drawn into a long conversation about it.


Peace...

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