So there is this HB 9 I have on fb that i have spoken to before. I have only ever met her once very very briefly. She once liked a few of my photos consecutively out of nowhere so i took it as a chance to speak to her, this went nowhere and she ended up in a relationship shortly after.

Anyway i have noticed that has since ended very recently, this chick has shown some sort of interest in me before and i just want to know how i can approach this again. Another reason i want to do this is to lay groundwork as i may potentially be attending a party she will be at in a couple of weeks time.

How do i best do this online keeping in mind she has just come out of a relationship like a week ago?

All advice is welcome!

help?

I've been wondering the same thing... about girls just out of relationships.

So you saw she had a bad breakup. Use it as an opener.

Saw/heard about your breakup. Tough deal.

Her response should tell you where to go from there.

keep building report. Continue to keep things some what complementary in a way that shows attraction. Build attraction so that the relationships isn't friend zoned between now and then and so that when you finally meet it isn't the metting of two friend zoners it the meeting of two people who like each others personality and looks.

Is bringing up a girl's breakup really a good opener? It seems to me as though that's probably the last thing she wants to discuss.

Save it for the party where she is at... I wouldn't bother trying to build attraction if you are going to see her in a few weeks.. you'll just come off as needy, or worse, a creep who tries to game girls on facebook.

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Getting chicks off of Facebook is easy. If a girl blows you off and isn't actually a friend, just summarily block them. Of course, you do need to respect people's boundaries on Facebook if you are going to date them, or you will come across as a creep.

When you do make a move, it's best to move as quickly as the situation will allow and to talk to the girl and listen to what she says. If you're really friends, you can actually ask her what it would take to convince her to sleep with you, tell her how you feel, and so forth. Being friends gets you past a lot of bitch shields and shit tests by default. If she's not really a friend (and you can tell the difference, even with chicks you've never met but are friends with on Facebook), Facebook can be a nightmare.

When a girl likes one of your posts, it's not a cue to start talking--you want to respond in kind but lower energy, for example, by liking one of her posts that you actually like. Posting on a girl's wall is actually very powerful, but you have to use discretion and be totally alpha about it, meaning not in reaction and in a socially adept way.