Hello,

I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions on closing a girl on OKC? Right I am messaging with a girl on okc. We have been messaging back a fourth for a couple days. (about 1 message a day).

I would like to close her to get a date with her. She is using an okc app. So should I ask for the date on okc or the number ? Any suggestions appreciate.

I usually ask their phone number. Soon. Like within the first day of talking to them. If possible, within the first 10 messages (and most people will say I wait waaaaaay too long if I get to 10)

You can ask fairly simply "so what's your phone number?" or make it more funny. A couple times I tried "so, can I get your digits? I wouldn't want to be found on a dating website at work "
In one case, this chick was "making me work" for it, so I texted her random crap for like a while, and then when I got over the fun or trolling her I simply said "hey look this is all so fun but if you won't give me your number I am honestly out of here since to me it means you are just here for fun and not interested in meeting anyone". Got the digit. It never went anywhere cause she lived somewhat far from me and logistics were not the best, but still.. sometimes you gotta be ballsy and be ready to lose them.

With all of the above said, if she is interested, she will most likely give it to you. Usually if they don't, it means they don't want to meet you, or maybe they don't want to meet anyone. Be ready for exceptions (I have had one girl who didn't give me the number, but she was totally down to meet, and k-closed her at the end of the night), but most likely no number == no date == no pussy.
Once you get the number, it's no win. Not even a slim win. You need to text/call/SPAM/whatevsapp and ask her out soon. The digits are a small compliance and logistical step to getting her out. Unless you want a texting buddy in the friendzone, that is.

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It's as simple as it sounds.
After it seems like you guys have hit it off a bit just offer texting.
I actually went on a binge testing this out online 8/10 it works (9 depending on how well/long you two hold conversation. One of the times I literally sent "Let's text" and the response was her number. Some girls may just generally not give out their numbers right away, others, if they like you, will offer an alternate way to talk to you.

Some ways to get the number
"I'm getting off here (boring, too many messages, busy, whatever) but we should text"
"Well hey this was fun but I have some stuff to do, here's my number (number) text me"
"You're cool to talk to, let's text"
"let's text"

Results will work better if you offer your number to her instead of requesting.

Sometimes it's better to give them your number; sometimes it's best to ask for theirs.

If things are pretty obviously progressing towards a date and I can ask them out without getting their phone number, I give them mine. This greatly reduces cold feet, especially if you are showing a lot of value and she is at all concerned about getting hurt or wasting her time.

Once you have some comfort and attraction built, you can ask (in a short message): "What's your phone number?"