ok well i was listening to a seduction cd last night and the person gave advice to say to someone online that you are interested in.....''hey i jerked off thinking about you last night. thanks'' or '' hey do you know how many times i have jerked off to your pictures, i feel like i owe you a dinner'' he said that these lines work and they get her to think about you. Well i tried it last night on some girl that i liked and she blocked me after two minutes of reading it.
Anyway my point is, this girl that i approached - i previously made a move on one of her closest friends (her roommate) online a few months ago, we actually had a good connection to begin with at first but then things fizzled out. However just to amuse myself, i want to make a move on her other closest friend (her other roommate). This girl seems different however from what i have seen, she is a model and in all her pictures she radiates like an attitude and does all these mean- mugging faces as though she is a woman with balls. She seems difficult to approach, but every woman has a soft delicate side that loves to be seduced underneath that mask they put up and i want to challenge myself to try to find it in her.
Last week i introduced myself to her in a message but she didnt reply, last night i sent her another somewhat cryptic, arrogant message saying this......''hi. are you politically correct? because im not. have you ever watched that film ''the Witches of Eastwick''? if not you should watch it.....then you will know why you have the Michelle Pfeiffer role in the film '' She read it but did not reply.
So this morning i sent her a music video/youtube link (Robert Palmer ''She makes my day'') - she didnt reply, but she read it as soon as i sent it. Does this mean that by reading it straight away, that im getting her interested in me? Im expecting her to block me, but i really want to establish a connection with her, like i did with her other two friends but this time go further with her. Can you give me some tricks, advice please? What should i do next? Should i send her a friend request, because i havent done that yet?

Please do not follow any more advice from your online guru.

It may work well for him, but he could look like Brad Pitt for all you know , so what works for him doesn't mean he speaks for the rest of the world's men.

Be normal instead, read her profile, think of something challenging to her.

Or just play the numbers game and send tonnes of messages and concentrate on the ones that bite.

You really should move on from that one girl in particular, take the hint. If she isn't even responding to you, why would you friend request her? I guess persistence is a good thing, but not in this case, move on to someone else, please, for your own sake.

Check out the best posts on this very forum, the key is to test what works for you, and scrap what doesn't work for you and use something that is congruent to your personality.

P.s. Please don't use online game as a crutch. At least get out in the real world, it would improve your game much faster, you seem VERY inexperienced and wet behind the ears.

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its not just an online guru, it is mostly about seduction and domination. I have learned through these online chats that i think i am really too open with women i talk to on there and i give too much away. This girls friend, i was getting closer with her, she was sending me daily topless pictures of herself and pictures in her bikini at the beach, she seemed really interested in me and we were getting along well.
Then she started talking to me about her ex boyfriends and asking for advice, i didnt think nothing of it at the time because i thought ''well at least she is opening up to me and its something extra to talk about.'' Then she started bragging to me about how many men she has been with, i cant remember the number but she claimed that it was between 50-70. She told me about this guy that she lives with that she loves but she sleeps with other men when he isnt around. I started feeling small in comparisson and i felt like i had to compete with her and since we were both opening up about this subject- i told her that sometimes i sleep with prostitutes. How stupid of me to tell her something like that. I said it without thinking. I think that she spoke to me for another day after that and then she went cold and ignorant and found myself chasing her until she blocked me.
Thanks for your advice, yes i have built up a number of girls that i speak to online and they all give me the run around for months. Its a habit, i like meeting new girls on there and seeing it progress.
Im very wet behind the ears. I didnt realise how much until i started listening to these seduction cd's. I have been doing all the things that i shouldnt do.

You have a lot of work to do my friend.

Think you need to read something a bit more meaningful though.

Read:

"models" - Mark Manson.

It gets in depth to this who seduction malarky, you really need something like this.

Honestly...how many girls have you met or even seduced from your online "approaching"?

If your number is low, I think you need to meet some fellow like minded wings and get into the trenches (the field) and you will auto correct your bad habits along the way.

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I used to be good at it. But i got invovled in this one girl, and she was a total head-case. Every day we would argue. I would send her a few emails, she would never respond- then a few days later she would send me an email saying ''oh so i guess you dont want to talk to me anymore'' and it would always start from there. By the time i was through with her i felt a lot more cautious, more desperate and needy to women i spoke to online for some reason.

ok guys i sent her a few random cold read messages:

''i can tell that behind that ice queen character that you like to create soap opera characters, mostly in your head.''
''when it comes to making decisions....i think that you are probably an impulsive person, and it works out for you a lot of the times, like some of the best moments in your life it actually worked out for you in that way, but it can also get you into trouble... but you like that.
I bet you intimidate a lot of guys or you actually dont feel comfortable with a lot of guys because you think what is going on your mind might be too much for them to handle, and that can be somewhat sad if you dont know how to deal with it. That is you in a nutshell i think.''
''and one more thing.....one of your favourite films is ''Beaches.''
.......''Thats the story of, thats the glory of love.'' I bet that you have hummed that song a few times in your head in your life.''

but she didnt reply back, however she reads them straight away, which makes me think that hse is somewhat interested and wants to know what im going to say next. Any ideas to get a response from her?

That is the WORST text I have ever seen. Epic face palm

No wonder she has flaked , move on.

Lesson learnt, DONT BE CREEPY next time

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what part was creepy. the first paragraph, it has sometimes worked for me. The other one i got from a creepy pick up artists video on youtube, that bs about beeing impulsive and intimidating guys. All pick up artists are creepy, i have just stooped to their level.

This part:

So you stole it from a PUA that you thought was creepy and still used it?

I'm sorry mate, don't want to sound like a dick, but the whole interaction was rubbish. Learn from it. Stop analyzing it, just don't be using weird copy and paste's in future, you might have laid her if you just tried being bloody normal instead of gamey.

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thanks for your advice. yes, it was creepy how he delivered it but he made it seem like it worked for him so i used it. (starting from ''when it comes to making decisions'') the first line i have used on women before and they are like ''wow, how did you know that?'' eh, i was at a disadvantage anyway. Her roommate friends probably told her about me and to stay well away - but it would have been nice to complete the circle of having moved in on all of them, thats why i wanted to do it.

Ok up to you.

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Ok those openers are the worst I have ever seen, or close. What. The. Fuck. Dude, use some common sense. Most videos are there for the sole purpose of trying to get you to buy products. I say this all the time here, focus on your PROFILE, not your opener, and the women will come.

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